EP.163 - Sarah Akinterinwa-"My Identity Will Never Be Straightforward - & That's Okay"

Featured in The New Yorker and The Guardian, Sarah is a Nigerian child of immigrants, raised in the UK and now based in Canada, whose work as a cartoonist captures the quiet, in-between moments we don’t always have the language for.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a room thinking, “why doesn’t this feel right anymore?”… this conversation will hit.

We talk about what it means to make sense of ourselves in a world that once taught us to suppress more than we expressed. From the question of “Do I belong, or am I just fitting in?” to navigating identity as children of immigrants, this conversation moves through the layers of growth, culture, and the subtle shifts that shape how we show up in our relationships.

Sarah shares how her art has become a mirror—especially for women of color—reflecting back the feelings so many of us carry but struggle to name. And I can say, she did exactly that for me.

This is for the woman who feels in-between... and is learning to trust what she feels, even when she can’t fully explain it yet.

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