Beyond Your Number

How to Speak a Type 4’s Language (Without Getting Too Deep Too Fast)

Faith and Community Season 3 Episode 101

How does an Enneagram Four communicate? In this episode, Damon and Kelly explore the creative, emotional, and deeply authentic style of Fours — and what it means to truly be with them in conversation. Whether you are a 4 or love one, this episode helps you understand their inner world, and how to connect with empathy, not just answers.


In This Episode:

  • The superpower of Fours: authenticity in emotion and expression
  • Why Fours crave depth in conversations and often avoid small talk
  • How to communicate with Fours: using presence, empathy, and validation
  • Common challenges Fours face: feeling misunderstood or dismissed
  • A growth path for Fours: learning to balance logic with emotion


New here? Check out Episode 100 to hear how each Enneagram type handles change — and where this podcast is heading next.

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