Beyond Your Number
You’re not just a type — you’re a whole story. Beyond Your Number is a conversational Enneagram podcast where Damon & Kelly explore real-life growth through personality. From relationships to team dynamics, we help you go deeper than the label. New episodes every Wednesday. Formerly EnneagramU.
Beyond Your Number
What Gets in the Way of Healthy Conflict (And How to Spot It)
Last week, we laid out a six-step process for navigating conflict, but let’s be honest, sometimes the real struggle is what happens before the steps even start. In this follow-up episode, Damon and Kelly unpack the emotional landmines that often sabotage our best intentions in conflict.
From blame to emotional avoidance, they explore five self-sabotage traps and how each Enneagram type might fall into them. Whether you're a Nine trying to keep the peace, a One trying to make it right, or a Four deep in your feelings, this episode will help you recognize what’s getting in the way, and why it matters.
Stay tuned next week for the follow-up: how to move toward emotional self-regulation when conflict arises.
- The five emotional traps that sabotage healthy conflict
- How your Enneagram number may fall into specific pitfalls
- Why “blame” is emotionally satisfying — and what it costs you
- The subtle ways we numb, bury, or get stuck in unhealthy patterns
- How recognizing self-sabotage is the first step toward change
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