Beyond Your Number

You’re not just a type — you’re a whole story. Beyond Your Number is a conversational Enneagram podcast where Damon & Kelly explore real-life growth through personality. From relationships to team dynamics, we help you go deeper than the label. New episodes every Wednesday. Formerly EnneagramU.

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Subtype Layers: Types 3 and 4

December 17, 2025 • Faith and Community • Season 3 • Episode 131

We are officially off the rails. Kelly is campaigning hard for “baby AI” versions of us. After we recover, we get back to what actually matters: subtype layers. In this episode we break down Enneagram Types 3 and 4 through the self-preservation, social, and one-to-one lenses, naming the strengths and watch-outs for each subtype. If you have ever wondered why some Threes feel like tireless workers while others feel like performers, or why some Fours seem quietly self-contained while others feel like intense romantics, this episode will help you spot the patterns with more clarity and less judgment.

Type 3

Self-Preservation: The Worker

Social: The Politician (or The Performer, “Peacock”)

One-to-One: The Charmer (“The Magnet”)

Type 4

Self-Preservation: The Comfortable Withdrawer (“Comfortable Individual”)

Social: The Outsider

One-to-One: The Intense Romantic

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