Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Loving Me Before I Love You is a podcast about Self-Love. We explore area in life that are impacted by self love. These areas can consist of but are not limited to: Career, Beauty, Mental Health and Relationships. It's about recognizing and embracing your own worth and value as a person before you can fully give and receive love from others. Each episode features interviews with experts and real people sharing their stories and offering advice on how to cultivate self-love along with career choices, mental health, beauty and healthy relationships. Whether you're on your healing journey or are completely healed and have mastered the art of loving yourself wholly , this podcast has something for everyone. Tune in to discover how loving yourself first can lead to a happier, more fulfilling life.
Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
The Psychology of Identity: Why Do We Lose Ourselves In Roles
Welcome back to Loving Me Before I Love You, where we talk about the parts of you that get lost while you’re busy being everything for everyone else.
In this episode, I’m joined by Jessica Toussaint for a powerful conversation about identity, self-concept, and the psychological cost of living inside roles you were never meant to disappear into. Daughter. Mother. Partner. Professional. Strong one. The responsible one. The healer. Somewhere along the way, you stopped asking who you are outside of what you do.
We unpack:
• how roles slowly replace identity
• why women are praised for self abandonment
• the difference between responsibility and erasure
• how early conditioning teaches us to perform instead of exist
• practical ways to reconnect with the woman underneath the labels
This episode is for the woman who looks successful on the outside but feels fragmented on the inside. The one who keeps showing up while quietly losing herself. If you’ve ever asked, “Who am I without my titles?” this conversation will sit with you long after it ends.
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This is Loving Me Before I Love You. You are not your roles. You are the woman who existed before them, and she deserves to come back home.
