Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You, the podcast for women who are ready to stop losing themselves while searching for love, validation, and belonging.
Hosted by Coach Tammy Nicole, this show is where healing meets honesty, self-discovery meets transformation, and women learn how to reclaim their voice, their worth, and their power.
Each week, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with therapists, relationship experts, life coaches, authors, and everyday people with extraordinary stories to explore the conversations that help us become healthier, more whole versions of ourselves. From self-love and emotional healing to relationships, boundaries, confidence, mother wounds, childhood experiences, mental health, identity, and personal growth, no topic is off limits.
This is not about becoming someone new.
It's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing, abandonment wounds, emotional unavailability, unhealthy relationship patterns, low self-worth, or the feeling that you've spent your life taking care of everyone except yourself, you're in the right place.
Through meaningful conversations, practical tools, and powerful insights, you'll learn how your past shaped you, how your patterns were formed, and most importantly, how to create a future that aligns with the woman you're becoming.
Because healthy love doesn't start when someone chooses you.
It starts when you choose yourself.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and join us each week as we do the work of healing, growing, and becoming.
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You.
Your journey back to yourself starts here.
Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Loving Yourself First – The Ultimate Relationship The Males Perspective
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Welcome back to Loving Me Before I Love You, where self love isn’t gendered, and accountability belongs to everyone in the room.
In this episode, I’m joined by Louis “Louie V” Vick for a real conversation about self love from the male perspective. No fluff. No posturing. Just truth. Louie V blends professional presence with unfiltered real talk, the kind that challenges comfort zones and calls people higher without crossing lines. He says what most people think but don’t articulate, and he says it from lived experience.
We get into:
• what self love actually looks like for men
• how unhealed men show up in relationships
• why loving yourself first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary
• accountability, emotional maturity, and growth
• what women misunderstand about men and vice versa
This episode is for women who want healthier relationships and are open to understanding how men process identity, love, and responsibility. It’s also for men willing to look in the mirror and do the work instead of pointing fingers.
Connect with our guest, Louie V:
TikTok & Facebook: @thelouiev
Instagram: @_thelouiev
YouTube: @the_louiev
If today’s conversation expanded your perspective and you’re ready to deepen your self love journey:
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This is Loving Me Before I Love You. The ultimate relationship starts with you. Anything built without that foundation will eventually collapse.
