Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You, the podcast for women who are ready to stop losing themselves while searching for love, validation, and belonging.
Hosted by Coach Tammy Nicole, this show is where healing meets honesty, self-discovery meets transformation, and women learn how to reclaim their voice, their worth, and their power.
Each week, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with therapists, relationship experts, life coaches, authors, and everyday people with extraordinary stories to explore the conversations that help us become healthier, more whole versions of ourselves. From self-love and emotional healing to relationships, boundaries, confidence, mother wounds, childhood experiences, mental health, identity, and personal growth, no topic is off limits.
This is not about becoming someone new.
It's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing, abandonment wounds, emotional unavailability, unhealthy relationship patterns, low self-worth, or the feeling that you've spent your life taking care of everyone except yourself, you're in the right place.
Through meaningful conversations, practical tools, and powerful insights, you'll learn how your past shaped you, how your patterns were formed, and most importantly, how to create a future that aligns with the woman you're becoming.
Because healthy love doesn't start when someone chooses you.
It starts when you choose yourself.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and join us each week as we do the work of healing, growing, and becoming.
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You.
Your journey back to yourself starts here.
Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Becoming The Woman I said I Would Be
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At some point in every woman’s life, there comes a moment where she has to look in the mirror and ask herself a hard question. Am I actually becoming the woman I said I would be?
Not the woman everyone else needed.
Not the woman shaped by expectations, survival, or fear.
But the woman she promised herself she would become.
In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Nikkole Malone. She is a wife, mother, author, and the founder of Breaking Ground, a faith-based coaching program helping aspiring entrepreneurs move from fear to foundation.
Nikkole shares her story of knowing deep down she was called for more, yet wrestling with doubt, hesitation, and the weight of stepping fully into her purpose. With nearly a decade of experience in sales and operations and a heart rooted in faith, she made the decision to stop waiting and start building with God.
Through her work with Breaking Ground, Nikkole now helps faith-filled visionaries turn their God-given ideas into real businesses that create both impact and income. Her belief is simple but powerful. When faith meets strategy, vision becomes viable and legacy is built.
In this episode we talk about:
• The moment you realize you are no longer willing to stay the same
• What it really takes to become the woman you said you would be
• Moving from fear and hesitation into faith and action
• Building a life and business aligned with purpose
• Why becoming her requires letting go of who you used to be
This conversation is about identity, obedience, and the courage to step into the version of yourself that has been waiting for you all along.
Because the truth is, becoming her isn’t about perfection.
It’s about alignment.
Ready to reclaim your voice, worth, and power?
If you are a woman who is successful on the outside but quietly struggling within, my 90-Day Reclaim Your Power Coaching Program was created for you.
Inside this experience we work through identity, boundaries, self-forgiveness, and confidence so you can finally live the life you know you were designed to live.
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