Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You, the podcast for women who are ready to stop losing themselves while searching for love, validation, and belonging.
Hosted by Coach Tammy Nicole, this show is where healing meets honesty, self-discovery meets transformation, and women learn how to reclaim their voice, their worth, and their power.
Each week, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with therapists, relationship experts, life coaches, authors, and everyday people with extraordinary stories to explore the conversations that help us become healthier, more whole versions of ourselves. From self-love and emotional healing to relationships, boundaries, confidence, mother wounds, childhood experiences, mental health, identity, and personal growth, no topic is off limits.
This is not about becoming someone new.
It's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing, abandonment wounds, emotional unavailability, unhealthy relationship patterns, low self-worth, or the feeling that you've spent your life taking care of everyone except yourself, you're in the right place.
Through meaningful conversations, practical tools, and powerful insights, you'll learn how your past shaped you, how your patterns were formed, and most importantly, how to create a future that aligns with the woman you're becoming.
Because healthy love doesn't start when someone chooses you.
It starts when you choose yourself.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and join us each week as we do the work of healing, growing, and becoming.
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You.
Your journey back to yourself starts here.
Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Who Are You Outside of Motherhood?
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This one right here… this is for the woman who woke up one day and realized the house got quiet… and somewhere along the way, so did she.
In this episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, we’re asking a question that hits deeper than most are ready to admit… Who are you outside of motherhood?
I’m joined by returning guest Evelyn Smith, who you may remember from Season 1 when we unpacked self-love and career. But this time… life looks different. Evelyn is stepping into a new chapter as a recent empty nester, and baby… this conversation is real, raw, and necessary.
Because let’s be honest…
Motherhood can become your identity if you’re not careful.
You give, you pour, you sacrifice… and then one day, your children no longer need you in the same way… and now you’re left asking… who am I now?
We talk about:
• The emotional shift of becoming an empty nester
• Grieving the role while still being grateful for it
• Rediscovering yourself beyond being “mom”
• The fear, the freedom, and the identity crisis no one prepares you for
• How to reconnect with the woman you were before… and the one you’re becoming now
This episode is not about losing motherhood… it’s about expanding beyond it.
Because you were always more than what you did for everybody else.
If you’ve been feeling lost, disconnected, or unsure of who you are in this season… this conversation is your mirror and your permission slip.
🎙️ Loving Me Before I Love You is available on all streaming platforms
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It’s time to meet the version of you… that’s been waiting on you.
