Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You, the podcast for women who are ready to stop losing themselves while searching for love, validation, and belonging.
Hosted by Coach Tammy Nicole, this show is where healing meets honesty, self-discovery meets transformation, and women learn how to reclaim their voice, their worth, and their power.
Each week, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with therapists, relationship experts, life coaches, authors, and everyday people with extraordinary stories to explore the conversations that help us become healthier, more whole versions of ourselves. From self-love and emotional healing to relationships, boundaries, confidence, mother wounds, childhood experiences, mental health, identity, and personal growth, no topic is off limits.
This is not about becoming someone new.
It's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing, abandonment wounds, emotional unavailability, unhealthy relationship patterns, low self-worth, or the feeling that you've spent your life taking care of everyone except yourself, you're in the right place.
Through meaningful conversations, practical tools, and powerful insights, you'll learn how your past shaped you, how your patterns were formed, and most importantly, how to create a future that aligns with the woman you're becoming.
Because healthy love doesn't start when someone chooses you.
It starts when you choose yourself.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and join us each week as we do the work of healing, growing, and becoming.
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You.
Your journey back to yourself starts here.
Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
The Father Wound: Healing the Unspoken Hurt
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Some wounds don’t bleed where people can see them…
but they shape how you love, how you trust, and how you show up in every relationship.
In this powerful episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, we’re getting honest about the father wound… the unspoken hurt many carry but few know how to name.
I’m joined by Jarratt DAMN, host of It's About DAMN Time, who brings raw truth, reflection, and real-time growth into this conversation. Together, we unpack how the absence, inconsistency, or emotional unavailability of a father can quietly shape identity, self-worth, and the way we navigate love.
This isn’t about blame.
This is about awareness.
This is about healing what was never acknowledged.
In this episode, we talk about:
• How the father wound shows up in adulthood… especially in relationships
• The emotional patterns you inherited but never questioned
• What it looks like for men to do the inner work out loud
• Releasing the need for validation from the very place that hurt you
• Choosing healing, even when the apology never comes
Jarratt shares his journey as a father, a man, and someone committed to becoming better one truth at a time. His perspective will challenge you to stop running from the questions… and start asking the ones that actually set you free.
Because healing isn’t about having all the answers…
It’s about having the courage to face what you’ve been avoiding.
Ready to stop carrying what was never yours?
My Self-Love Reset Program is designed to help you rebuild your identity, set boundaries without guilt, and finally choose yourself with clarity, confidence, and courage.
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If this episode speaks to you, don’t just sit with it… do something with it.
Your healing is waiting on your honesty.
