Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You, the podcast for women who are ready to stop losing themselves while searching for love, validation, and belonging.
Hosted by Coach Tammy Nicole, this show is where healing meets honesty, self-discovery meets transformation, and women learn how to reclaim their voice, their worth, and their power.
Each week, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with therapists, relationship experts, life coaches, authors, and everyday people with extraordinary stories to explore the conversations that help us become healthier, more whole versions of ourselves. From self-love and emotional healing to relationships, boundaries, confidence, mother wounds, childhood experiences, mental health, identity, and personal growth, no topic is off limits.
This is not about becoming someone new.
It's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing, abandonment wounds, emotional unavailability, unhealthy relationship patterns, low self-worth, or the feeling that you've spent your life taking care of everyone except yourself, you're in the right place.
Through meaningful conversations, practical tools, and powerful insights, you'll learn how your past shaped you, how your patterns were formed, and most importantly, how to create a future that aligns with the woman you're becoming.
Because healthy love doesn't start when someone chooses you.
It starts when you choose yourself.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and join us each week as we do the work of healing, growing, and becoming.
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You.
Your journey back to yourself starts here.
Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
How to Redefine Freedom on Your Own Terms
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What does freedom really mean?
For many women, freedom has been defined by other people's expectations, past wounds, responsibilities, relationships, or even survival. But true freedom is not simply doing whatever you want. It's having the courage to live in alignment with who you truly are.
In this powerful episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Alpha Mshihiri, therapist, coach, and advocate for personal transformation, to explore what it means to redefine freedom on your own terms. Together, they unpack the difference between external freedom and internal freedom, how past experiences can quietly keep us emotionally imprisoned, and why healing is often the pathway to true liberation.
You'll hear an honest conversation about identity, faith, relationships, personal responsibility, and the courage it takes to stop living for everyone else's approval. Whether you're breaking free from limiting beliefs, unhealthy relationship patterns, people-pleasing, or fear, this episode will challenge you to examine what freedom looks like in your own life.
In This Episode We Discuss:
• What freedom really means beyond the surface
• The hidden chains that keep people emotionally stuck
• How faith and healing work together in personal transformation
• The difference between independence and true freedom
• Practical steps to begin creating a life that feels authentic and aligned
If you've ever felt trapped by expectations, fear, guilt, or old versions of yourself, this conversation will remind you that freedom isn't something you find. It's something you choose.
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Until next time, remember: the most important relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself. 💜
