Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You, the podcast for women who are ready to stop losing themselves while searching for love, validation, and belonging.
Hosted by Coach Tammy Nicole, this show is where healing meets honesty, self-discovery meets transformation, and women learn how to reclaim their voice, their worth, and their power.
Each week, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with therapists, relationship experts, life coaches, authors, and everyday people with extraordinary stories to explore the conversations that help us become healthier, more whole versions of ourselves. From self-love and emotional healing to relationships, boundaries, confidence, mother wounds, childhood experiences, mental health, identity, and personal growth, no topic is off limits.
This is not about becoming someone new.
It's about becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
If you've ever struggled with people-pleasing, abandonment wounds, emotional unavailability, unhealthy relationship patterns, low self-worth, or the feeling that you've spent your life taking care of everyone except yourself, you're in the right place.
Through meaningful conversations, practical tools, and powerful insights, you'll learn how your past shaped you, how your patterns were formed, and most importantly, how to create a future that aligns with the woman you're becoming.
Because healthy love doesn't start when someone chooses you.
It starts when you choose yourself.
So grab your journal, take a deep breath, and join us each week as we do the work of healing, growing, and becoming.
Welcome to Loving Me Before I Love You.
Your journey back to yourself starts here.
Loving Me Before I Love You Podcast with Tammy Nicole and Friends
Unpacking the Layers of Who You Are
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Who are you beneath the titles, the responsibilities, the pain, and the expectations you've carried for years?
In this powerful episode of Loving Me Before I Love You, Coach Tammy Nicole sits down with Kenya Metoyer, Personal Growth Strategist, to explore what it really means to unpack the layers of your identity. Together, they dive into the beliefs, habits, and emotional patterns that often keep us disconnected from our authentic selves and discuss how true personal growth begins with radical self-awareness and intentional change.
Kenya shares practical insights on breaking free from outdated versions of yourself, building emotional resilience, and embracing the woman you were created to become. This conversation is both honest and empowering, reminding us that healing isn't about becoming someone new. It's about returning to who you've always been beneath the survival strategies.
If you've ever felt stuck, questioned your identity, or wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns, this episode will encourage you to look beneath the surface and begin the work of lasting transformation.
In this episode, you'll discover:
- Why your identity is more than your past experiences.
- How survival patterns can keep you from becoming your authentic self.
- The importance of emotional resilience in personal growth.
- Practical ways to challenge outdated beliefs and embrace lasting change.
- Why self-discovery is a lifelong journey worth taking.
About Our Guest
Kenya Metoyer is a relationship coach, speaker, educator, and the founder of Kenya's Keepsake, a personal development platform dedicated to helping individuals unlearn unhealthy patterns, relearn healthier relationship skills, and build stronger connections through self-discovery and informed choices.
With expertise in emotional intelligence, communication, conflict resolution, boundaries, accountability, and personal growth, Kenya empowers individuals, couples, families, and communities to understand themselves first so they can navigate every relationship with greater confidence, clarity, and intention. She believes many relationship struggles aren't caused by a lack of love, but by a lack of awareness, emotional skills, and healthy communication.
Known for her honest, practical, and thought-provoking approach, Kenya encourages people to examine the beliefs, behaviors, and survival patterns they've carried for years. Her work helps others unpack the layers of their identity, let go of what no longer serves them, and develop the emotional tools needed to build healthier relationships at home, at work, and within themselves.
Kenya is also the founder of Rich in Roots, a nonprofit organization that equips youth with emotional wellness, conflict resolution, leadership, communication, and life skills to help them thrive in every area of life.
Her guiding philosophy is simple:
"Before you can build healthy relationships with others, you must first understand the relationship you have with yourself."
Connect with Kenya Metoyer:
@Kenya's Keepsake on all social media
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