Whether you're on the path of recovery from lust and pornography, or walking the painful road of betrayal as a spouse, the Triduum holds sacred ground for your healing. In this episode, we’ll walk through Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturd...

"My God, my God, why have You forsaken me?"  – Psalm 22:1-2.  Have you ever felt abandoned by God?  "How long, O Lord? Will You forget me forever?"  – Psalm 13:1-2.  Have you ever wondered when God wou...

In this powerful episode, I'm honored to have Vinny Flynn, Catholic author, speaker and Divine Mercy expert, to explore how Christ’s Divine Mercy heals the wounds of shame and brings peace, and even renewal to the heart of a betrayed spouse.&nb...

 In this episode, we tackle the concept of negative sobriety—when someone merely avoids acting out but doesn’t pursue real transformation. White-knuckling through temptation is unsustainable.  Sober is not well.  ...

Dr. Mark Denison joins the show to discuss Advanced Recovery.  He wrote a book on the topic including 12 Keys to Long-Term Sobriety and the neat thing is, he includes 40 stories of men with long-term sobriety.  The 200+ years of long-...

In this episode, Steve is joined by his wife, Cristin, to take a look back at their highlights from 2024 and to discuss their word and focus for 2025.  Please share CFP with anyone you know could benefit.  May God richly bless you!&nb...

Christmas is the most wonderful time of the year.  Thanksgiving kicks off the holiday season and there's so much to get excited about.  At the same time, the holidays present many different challenges.  Steve dives into 11 strugg...

Steve interviews Chris Kaspar - founder of the Techless Wisephone, which is the world's safest and healthiest minimalist phone.  This is the perfect option for the one struggling with lust on their phone.  Chris shares his story and w...

In this episode Steve shares how the metaphor of the farmer and the concept of delayed gratification can provide powerful lessons in recovery.  He explores themes like hard work, discipline and patience and how they lead to long-term rewar...

In this episode Steve covers 25 reasons a Catholic should strive for custody of the eyes and a tip for each reason.  He caps off the episode with a powerful example from Scripture.  Don't miss out and please help the show by sharing w...

In this episode, Steve interviews Theo McManigal, the Catholic Outreach Specialist at Covenant Eyes.  Theo shares his personal story on his battle with lust and how he was able to break free and stay free.  Learn more about Covenant E...

In this episode, Steve talks about the dangers of looks and glances and what to do about it to achieve custody of the eyes.  Take a listen for strategies to maintain custody of the eyes and reflect on the five Bible verses to motivate us i...

In this episode, Steve breaks down how it's healthy to feel shame to improve relationships with self and others.  He recaps the difference between guilt and shame as well as offers 4 ways to use remorse for healing.  He covers two scr...

Ellen Drews is back to discuss a crucial part of the Full Disclosure process which is the use of a Polygraph.  Steve & Ellen break down the reasons for doing a polygraph, the pros and cons of it, 10 common concerns for taking a polygra...

Dr. Heidi Hastings joins the show to share what her research showed for men with problematic p0rn usage and the impact that had on religious women in marriage.  We also cover her 5 Stages of Betrayal & Self Development model.  I p...

Special Guest, Brya Hanan, joins the show to breakdown her new book:  Befriending Your Inner Child: A Catholic Approach to Healing and Wholeness.  We dive into discovering our inner child and drawing near to our inner child.  We ...

Ellen Drews is back to talk with Steve about the Full Disclosure process.  A Full Disclosure is a Rite of Truth.  They explain what it is, the risks and benefits of a FD as well as diving into the process.  Take a listen and if y...

In this episode, Steve covers how crucial it is to do the homework in recovery for both the addict and the spouse.  He also covers the negative effects when the homework does not get done.  He closes with 7 amazing scripture verses re...

Fr. Rich Conlin is a great priest from Vancouver, Canada.  He shares his journey from NCAA D1 golfer to a Catholic priest.  He shares with Steve about how his book: 9 Days to Corpus Christi can help an addict in recovery.  His bo...

My dear friend, Mark Denison, has this great quote that "If you're 90% in then you're 100% out."  That's the topic for this podcast.  We cover how crucial it is to be "All-In" and cover 7 reasons that 100% commitment is needed for suc...

Christie Walker, the Catholic Sobriety Coach, is back again for a great conversation about faith, addiction recovery and the power of community.  We take a look at how our Catholic upbringing intersects with the personal struggles we faced...

This saint was addicted to alcohol and underwent a profound conversion.  Steve lists 5 ways this saint can help those in recovery find freedom.  Tune in to find out which saint this is!Helpful links:Join Finally ...

In this episode, Steve covers the secret weapon in recovery.  This special weapon has the ability to keep us on track each and every day.  It helps us process our emotions -- which is difficult for many guys .  It connects us wit...

In this episode, Steve covers many reasons group coaching is a helpful remedy in this fight.  Listen to the end to find out Steve's favorite reason for group coaching...Hope you enjoy and if you struggle with lust, please reach out!

In this episode, Ellen Drews joins the show to discuss what betrayal trauma looks like and different ways of healing:  what the betrayed spouse can do to heal, what the addict, betraying spouse, can do to heal and how couples can heal toge...