The Diary of a Discarded Daughter - Redeeming a Painful Past
Welcome to the Diary of a Discarded Daughter (formerly titled "The Chronicles of the Christian Drama Queen") Diary of a Discarded Daughter is hosted by Lisa Schafer—a woman who has walked through forty years of abandonment, childhood s**ual abuse, and the long, messy road to healing.
This podcast takes a raw, authentic, heartfelt, and often humorous look at the deep wounds left by being unprotected, unloved, and unwanted. Abandoned and abused as a child, Lisa Schafer, Founder of Christian Drama Queen Solutions, shares the wounds that shaped her choices, her faith, and her understanding of God, as well as the healing and redemption Jesus gave her during her 40-year search for answers to painful questions. If you’ve ever struggled to "let go" of trauma or wrestled with bitterness, Lisa offers a seat at the table.
Through candid conversations, spiritual insights, and her signature wit (often at her own expense), Lisa creates a space for women to dig deeper into their walk with Jesus. Whether you're drowning in past pain or just beginning to confront it, she offers encouragement, truth, and an open invitation to get real about the hard stuff—without shame.
Lisa Schafer is the author of two Bible studies on forgiveness:
📖 DISCARDED – A Daughter’s Journey to Reclaim Freedom and Forgive the Father Who Left Her Behind
📖 The Christian Victim’s Guide to Forgiving the Unforgivable
(Both available on Amazon.)
Please note: Lisa is not a licensed counselor, pastor, or mental health professional. She strongly encourages listeners to seek professional care when needed.
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The Diary of a Discarded Daughter - Redeeming a Painful Past
Latest Episodes
Finding Purpose for a Painful Past - God's Sovereignty (Power Point Pres.)
In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Finding Purpose for a Painful Past, God's Sovereignty, we explore how God can redeem even the most difficult chapters of our lives. If you’ve ever wrestled with questions about why certain ...
In Authentic Discarded Daughter Fashion, I share the attack of the enemy on the messenger.
What happens when you feel called to share a message—but everything seems to rise up against you?In this episode, Lisa gets real and shares the spiritual reality of being attacked for just doing the work God gave her to do. She realizes ...
Addressing the Myth of Self-Worth? What Does the Bible Say About It?
Modern culture constantly tells us to “know your worth” and find value within yourself—but does the Bible actually teach self-worth?In this episode, Lisa explores the biblical perspective on worthiness, identity, and grace. Whil...
The Gospel of Good Vibes? And Why Your Suffering is Not Welcome in the Church
In this episode, Lisa explores a hard but necessary question: Why is the corporate church so uncomfortable with hearing about your suffering?Many believers are still walking through chronic pain, trauma, loss, or unanswer...
Sacrifice is Part of the Forgiveness Process - Part 2
The last episode opened up this concept of not just saying we've forgiven our abusers, but actually infesting loving kindness into them, and setting aside our desire for retribution or even closure. We've seen biblical examples of showing love ...
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