Emotional Healing, Sexual Energy + Resiliency with Gao Motsemme (Part 2)

This episode continues the discussion of Gao's journey of reigniting passion and resilience by tapping into emotions and healing generational wounds. Gao emphasizes the importance of embracing the inner child and sexual energy as catalysts for personal empowerment and transformation.

• Discussing Gaos unique healing approach
• Understanding ancestral imprints and their impact
• Exploring the connection to the inner child
• Recognizing the transformative power of sexual energy
• Emphasizing the importance of genuine emotional expression
• Introducing the concept of embracing 'death' for personal growth
• Encouraging alignment with one's true desires

About Gao Motsemme
From the depths of adversity to the heights of empowerment, Gao Motsemme is a mother of three who emerged from the ashes of betrayal and emotional turmoil,  discovered herself and her gifts as a Freedom Illuminator, Human MRI, Psychic Surgeon discovered my gifts as a Freedom Illuminator, Human MRI, and Psychic Surgeon.
Today, she channels her experiences into empowering ambitious professionals and entrepreneurs. She guides them to master the art of captivating presence, enabling them to influence boardrooms, ignite passion in bedrooms, and thrive authentically in all life areas. Her mission is to help others transcend their past, embrace their true selves, and achieve unprecedented success and fulfillment - without compromising their values or burning out.
https://www.gaomotsemme.com/

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Transcript

Speaker 1 0:06

All of us reach a point in time where we are depleted and need to somehow find a way to reignite the fire within. But how do we spark that flame? Welcome to Reignite Resilience, where we will venture into the heart of the human spirit. Resilience where we will venture into the heart of the human spirit. We'll discuss the art of reigniting our passion and strategies to stoke our enthusiasm. And now here are your hosts, natalie Davis and Pamela Cass.

Speaker 2 0:41

Welcome back to part two of our two part conversation with how. Welcome back to part two of our two-part conversation with Hal. She left us with the powerful phrase that you cannot heal what you do not feel. We're going to listen in as Hal shares more on the importance of tapping into our feelings and the energy that is the highest form of currency to help us in creating the life of our dreams we hope you enjoy. Well, hal, can you tell us about the work that you're doing now, because you have taken your gift, you've embraced this gift. You've embraced all of you Well, many more aspects of you than you did earlier in life. I'm sure that there's more to uncover still, yet Tell us a little bit about the work that you're doing and the impact that you're having on people's lives.

Speaker 3 1:28

The work that I do, like I said, it's here how the queen, but it's helping people to embrace their queen or their king. The magic that I do. I'm just like a human MRI. This is why, when I started, I said I'm being taken back to the power center. I'm going to to the root. I actually kind of like step into people's aura and I get to know every single little thing that is happening, to as simple as like one of the craziest things, like feeling, and I'm like what is happening? What is that thing that is like coming from your vagina, like I'll stop it, I'm on my period, okay, so something is dripping in. I've never I haven't had this feeling with you yet. But what is that? So it's like that because all this imprints the parents and all that we go through, all these memories. They're starting the body, you know. So at times we can be talking about oh, I want a relationship. When I talk about relationship, what part of you in your body is lining up? For instance, when I'm asking this question and I'm just dropping in, I'm being led to the pelvic area. When I just talk about relationship, I go to the pelvic area and the next thing I'm just going back to the solar plexus, you know it's kind of like going there and there's fear that comes through and it's quite interesting because a lot of people want relationship but at the same time they're afraid what they're in a relationship but there is also the fear that is there. So I am a human mri, as I'm like asking the body to see what is going on and, uh, psychic surgeon part is where I get to transmute all that so that they really do like what I call your unique signature blueprint can imagine you can embody that you know and align with whatever that you, that you need. When I do this through the like, I've developed this 5s framework, like for the past seven years while I was doing this work.

Speaker 3 3:17

One thing that has been very, very important like I said, I help people to find out the breakthrough from generational imprints. So the first thing is that freedom of individuality, you know, which is what I call soul sovereignty. So I help people to first thing, we need to disconnect from the ancestral imprints, family, whatever that you're connected to. All those wounds, mother wounds, father wounds you know we go into there. What is it that you're holding within you that is not yours? Because the reason why, at times, people kind of like they feel like they are doing work but nothing is happening is because, like they're working more, like I'm working on this lifetime and whatever experiences that you had, and they don't realize the templates that you are creating your life from. Because we create life from the templates that we are born into.

Speaker 3 3:59

Starting with something as small as you say name. You know it's the name that has been used for many times and when you're talking about an identity, who you are, you say your name. When you go and want to prove that it's you, you're coming through with your name and your surname. What are the templates, the imprints that have been existing in your ancestral lineages, cases, hexes and a lot of stuff. So we need to clear those things first so that you can be yourself.

Speaker 3 4:26

And another thing is the soul confidence, all confidence. It has something to do with the inner child, because, as much as the child was like, children are normally just confident and all that. But there is a lot of exchange that is happening, as I'm like taking the parents wounds, you know, exchanging your energy, hoping that you're going to be accepted or loved. You know you carry, you exchange and take what belongs to other people. But the truth of it is, you can't heal what is not yours. It doesn't matter what was occupying your parents, whether it's work, stress and all that and even one thing that I find at times it's kind of like, oh, but everything was just fine at home, you know, and all that. Because as parents, traditionally, we have this thing of we can't argue in front of the children. You know, it's kind of like you can't argue in front of the children, so we're gonna go to the room and then show up and be like oh, oh, lovey-dovey and all that, and I'm not saying argue in front of the children, but it doesn't help.

Speaker 3 5:17

The question is, what is the energy, what is the truth that is here? Are you willing to work on the core of the issues or you're going to be hiding them in the room because they don't, they don't remain there. That's what the child is picking up, right? They create their life from them, whether they consciously are aware of what is happening or not. So that inner child is also a big part of our vision. Isn't like the destiny that you have? The inner child has that. But if the inner child has been told shush, you should not be listened to and all that, then that's what's going to happen.

Speaker 3 5:50

So it's a big part of the work that I also do and at times it's quite interesting because I maybe want to call with somebody and I have my plan, like I'm going to ask you these questions and the moment I get on a call, it's like the inner child is the first thing that comes through. Sometimes they come through crying, where I can't even hold myself. All these tears will just come through, but they are the tears that somebody has suppressed and repressed, even though they show up like I can't remember the last time I cried. I don't cry, but your inner child is crying deep within. There's a lot that is going on inside, but another one is the sexual alchemy, which is like the big part of who we being and when we're looking at the sexual energy from religious system, cultural and a lot of stuff. This is the energy that has been evilized like. It's kind of like you're a sinner and all that. There's just a lot of things around it. You know, even the whole teachings are around the whole eve and adam, especially as women, then you are the one who spoke to the snake and all that shit. You know. So it was more like to repress that.

Speaker 3 6:50

Like I say, patriarchy sheds the man's heart and it sheds the woman's womb. So the men are functioning more from just the pelvic area, where it's kind of like sex, sex, sex, sex. But we are functioning from the heart, like love, love, love. We want that kind of like, we're using that love to get kind of like. We're giving men sex so that we can get love, because we are open from here, men are open from here and this is why, even when you look at it, men, they are more actionable beings, right, and we don't take action because we are not anchored, we have not put like, our pelvic area, our womb area is not connected to the heart, but the men, as much as they, can take action, what is missing is also the heart, because they are disconnected from here. This is why it's kind of like we need each other, but the truth of it, we have to heal individually so that we can be whole and function from that.

Speaker 3 7:39

And sexual energy is the energy that is connected to our purpose, it's connected to our finances, it's connected to our creativity, it's connected to our beauty and pleasure. Right, you cannot fully connect to what? Here's the thing when you say I don't know my purpose, the question is how open are you to this energy? How often are you led by something that inspires you? How often do you follow this energy when you feel that horniness and you ask yourself what is it that I want to create? Or it's more like it's been a while. Maybe I should find someone and we can just do something, you know, quickie, whatever yes, exactly.

Speaker 2 8:15

Do I have time for that? Is that gonna work?

Unlocking the Power of Sexual Energy

Speaker 3 8:17

yes, that's why we're just thinking about this energy. But it's not the end of the equation. If you know how to direct it, like ground it in and then direct what you need, you know whatever that you create. This is what helps you to be in that flow when you create the way you kind of like forget. But that sweetness is what you're also sharing with the people. The magic is in our sexual energy, because if you are disconnected from this energy, you find that sometimes depression and, interesting enough, even the.

Speaker 3 8:47

When I received this information and I did my research on the internet, I was like this is mind blowing, because when I was getting these downloads I was just advised to say check what the antidepressant does to the sexual energy and I was like huh. So when I checked I realized that this whole feel good thing illusion it's kind of like you're going to produce that from the mind. You're not producing it from the god, from the body, as it's meant to be. So people who are taking this antidepressant then they are struggling still with sick, with that sexual energy, because somehow this causes a disruption and all that. So it's magical when you work on it at its core and you realize you don't even need that, because it's the energy that produces more. Like I said, wherever that you're using it, it multiplies, if at all. You are stuck in toxic relationships. Guess what? You're gonna see a lot of that, so where are you using it? So that's the magic. And another thing is there's soul embodiment, which is more like coming back to the body and connecting to that body and releasing shame, because we have been like we connect to our body more from the third person perspective, like do you love how I look? And all that. We don't connect with ourselves. Even if I can go back to the sexual activity, which is there's a lot of it, but there is no sensuality.

Speaker 3 10:06

When I go even back to the activity, we often kind of like I want somebody to satisfy me, you know, make love with me, make me have an amazing orgasm, and you don't even know what you like when you like to be touched. How often are you connecting to your body? And it's quite interesting because one of the mornings I just woke up and I love to tune in my body. I first thing I'm thinking about the dreams that I had, or I just tune into my body and see how I'm feeling, what is going on. So one of the mornings I just woke up and I was just driven to my breast.

Speaker 3 10:33

I started touching my breast and it's kind of like they were just calling me and I just received this message of the magic that is here in our breast, because our breast it's kind of like a doorway to our heart. Even a man who gets to be with you and they kind of like first thing is kind of like can you connect to a woman's heart, even through those breasts, just playing, loving them, and all that which helps a woman's heart to open? You know, instead of like that's going to, I want to penetrate and all that. And again, speaking of the board, like I said, the to I want to penetrate and all that. And again, speaking of the board, like I said, the breasts are connected to the heart. This is why, even when you look at the cancer because this man is like what do you call it in german when you look at cancer and all that where people who have been in toxic relationship and a lot of stuff, often it ends up manifesting as a disease, like cancer and all that, like it's more like heartache and a lot of stuff you know.

Speaker 3 11:25

So the breast is a big part of our being. How often do you give yourself time to connect to your body? There is something that just came through, but somehow I kicked it out. Maybe it will come, oh yeah, coming back to the body and also the sexual energy, when we're talking about sexual abuse, this is like one of the things that, when there's been sexual abuse, first thing that registered in my body, when I connect to somebody I can just tell that oh, this person was sexually abused and often I find that most people don't talk. It's kind of like a secret that they hold. And then now imagine going through life like holding into that secret. Yeah, you don't live, you don't get to create anything right.

Speaker 3 12:02

And we may talk about that big thing, as in sexual abuse, and you know where the most of the trauma happens.

Speaker 3 12:08

It happens with our partners, with our husbands, where you just allow somebody to penetrate you but your body's not ready. But you feel like if I don't give him what he wants, maybe he'll go cheat or have it somewhere else and eventually our body becomes numb because we don't listen to it. And it's quite interesting because as I'm speaking about it, I'm getting that like the solar plexus is lighting up. It's just what it is. You're giving away your power, you are not in your power, right? So it affects the body, it causes that constriction and it's going to affect what you create. You know, even sexual energy. Just talking about that, this is like the energy that, when you look at the darkness, part of it, even what we see happening, whether it's just like churches that are flaunting the whole church thing and Jesus, what, what, what but yeah, in the background there is a lot of darkness. There's a lot of using girls and all that sleeping with them, there's a lot of sexual trafficking. Why?

Speaker 2 13:04

why? Why is why?

Speaker 3 13:05

is this thing something that is like ongoing and it's kind of like it's a big business at the same time. Sexual energy is the highest currency, you know. So when you're just using it for the sake of using it, you don't know what you're opening yourself to. And even when it comes to entities entities, especially whether it's sexual abuse but it's kind of like it's a doorway to these dark entities, you understand. This is why, at times when someone maybe has been sexually abused, besides their thoughts being law and all that, there's also some attachment. Like when I work with a lot of people, I get to remove these attachments because, yeah, it's kind of like open a door for dark entities and even their thoughts now they are not even theirs and a lot of stuff that is happening, you know. And I talk about intimacy, which is more like also basically embodying that and making love with us all, making love with life, because I believe we are here to make love with life.

Speaker 3 13:53

So when it's like a lot of people, we find that they're in relationships but uh, it's just stale, you know, sometimes it's kind of like they're even beyond being just kind of like I don't know friends or more like siblings kind of relationship and all that. What is happening right there? You know it's something that needs to be worked on, and we have a lie actually that, oh, with time, that's just what happens in relationships. Or, as time goes along, you don't even have sex, it's fine. That's totally a lie. Why is it that in other areas of our lives we expect that when we grow and evolve, then we have acquired lots of wisdom, but when it comes to sex, it's kind of like it's something that has to die off? Where are these beliefs Exactly?

Speaker 2 14:33

Put the lid on it, put that away. Yeah, but that's not how it has to be. Yeah, well, and you, you touch on it. But I think another piece of that is like the creation that comes out of that same energy, right, like there's absolutely we've been separated from that and it's beyond, like actual life creation, like all creation comes out of that same energy.

Speaker 3 14:54

It's not just to have sex and have a child, which is like it was limited to the procreation, but it's more, even like, for instance, instance. I always give an example with just me. I never like to cook, but I think it was more like a rebellious thing of like a woman, you have to cook for men, or whatever. I never liked it. I love the man when a man is cooking for me, so I'm like that stands me up.

Speaker 3 15:17

but somehow, when it comes to doing this work and opening up to this magic, I love cooking because it's all part of that which nurtures me. It's all my energy, just that love, that that I put in it, you understand. So it's something that comes through, and even at times. Here's the thing I worked with this other woman. I think she was 62 years old. First thing she saw her mom being sexually abused at nine and then at 12 years. Like the mom couldn't deal with it, she went and started doing drugs and then at 12 years, she was also sexually abused and the only way was to do drugs because that's what she saw her mama doing, right? So she attended one of my master classes my master classes, actually.

Speaker 2 16:05

so she attended one of my master classes, my master classes, actually, I'm gonna share the link to where there's some links. So I'll share the link, that link, and there's some offers, then perfect, we'll put it on our show.

Speaker 3 16:08

We'll put it on our show notes. Yes, okay, I was doing this master class. It was three days and there was a part of as well where I was doing a healing on sexual energy and all that. She attended that and, uh, at first she was just like I'm very uncomfortable, especially when you go to the sexual energy parks. So I just invited her to live in on that discomfort and we did the work and at the end she shared excitedly oh my god, for the first time I connected with my inner child and she was smiling and afterwards, like the following day or just a few days after, she wrote a poem and now she's actually planning on releasing her poem, book poem.

Speaker 3 16:43

And that opened up just from healing that energy in that session. And one of the things that also she shared was just that that you know, I used to run from one healer to the other, so she kind of like became. It was like now she left the drugs but now she's more like addicted to healers and more core dependency kind of like, of like, you know, not getting anywhere. And she said, since I did that session with you, I don't feel that I'm just being with myself. And she just shared how she's started noticing things that she didn't notice before the beauty that is around her. And another thing like one lady that I worked with who somehow she lost her job, something's happened and she came to me. When she came to me, I just told her that because she said how I don't need a lot of things, I need money. But like the person that registered was like her and her father relationship was like you need to work on a relationship with your father because your father is your money.

Speaker 3 17:34

It's like, oh no, that's not going to happen, not in this lifetime. So we dove as well and only to realize that the father was more like a breadwinner and he was also mistreating the mother, and part of this little girl felt like I want to protect my mother from this bastard and she hated everything that has to do with the father and that also somehow created this problem with the money, with the money issue, even the relationship that she had, which ended up leading to her losing her job, right. So we worked together and after that 12 weeks there was a lot of stuff like the inner child and a lot of stuff. She was actually one of the people who said I stopped crying because I felt like people think that they can take advantage of you, whether whether they hate you or beat you or whatever, so you have to cry. So I was like I'm not going to give them that satisfaction of them seeing me crying, but deep within it was like crazy. So we worked and after that 12 weeks, somebody just called her husband and said we need somebody who's got the skills and he said my wife can do that and she didn't even develop like modify her cv or anything. She just sent it as it is and they called her and they said actually we don't want you as an employee, we want you as a consultant. She said how, this is what I wanted, you know, and uh, offered her 90k and it was like seven fucking years without working and then I step in and I get in so big and all that. So there's just a lot of magical stuff that happens.

Speaker 3 19:04

And even with this woman, like I said, her relationship was fine, in the sense of she was holding back, despite the 10 plus years where it was more like the husband is the one who is chasing her, and she never opened up because she still had the fear of if I show this man that I really love him, then this man might treat me like my father, how I witnessed my father treat my mom and what happened with her body after the mother passed on, like she started developing a lot of physical ailments. That was coming from the mother, kind of like. You know, as a child you want to protect your mother. When I say you transfer your energy, so she took a lot of her stuff. When you care for your mother so much, you want them to be better. You want them to be treated differently. You don't realize it, but you are kind of like exchanging your energy with them and you take that pain, hoping that when I remove this, it's going to lighten your load. Maybe there's going to be a bit of space for me. Lighten your load, maybe there's going to be a bit of space for me. So these are the things that we also clear.

Embracing Truth and Freedom in Life

Speaker 3 20:01

There's just a lot of stuff. I can't even name it. Even this morning, I received a message from someone that said you can't believe it Someone who owed me from 2020. I have even given up about that. This person sent me a message and said that she's going to pay me. It's like this is crazy. So it's like magical stuff like that. Yeah, oh, wow.

Speaker 2 20:20

It's interesting that you say that Pam and I actually had that conversation about some outstanding invoices before we even started this podcast today. So it's there, you go from 2020. They called and said I'm ready to pay you. Yeah, wow, wow. It is magical. It is magical in every area of life it is.

Speaker 3 20:39

And that's just it. Because when it comes to, like I said, when we are not open to that because even when I'm talking about vulnerability, right and I want to talk about intimacy, I always talk about that principle of being honest are we honest with ourselves? Are we honest with what we want? Because there's at times, even when it comes to what we desire, it's kind of like uh yeah, I want a hundred thousand, but oh, you do what you do, you know that you are doing a business, kind of like. I caught myself like some years back. I caught myself where, like, a lot of people were sending me their testimonials about money, but I was not comfortable sharing the money, part of the outcome that they were receiving. I was like, even though people are receiving money, this is not important to me. I'm like what?

Speaker 3 21:20

the fuck are you talking about? Why is this coming from? That's it. It comes like that. I'm passionate about what I do because it changes people's lives, but money is not a big factor. Hello, are you surprised when you're struggling, you understand? So it's like all those things, the small things that are always telling us where we're at. There's nothing wrong with being passionate and impacting people's life and also being paid for your brilliance.

Speaker 2 21:44

Absolutely, that's it. I love it being paid for your brilliance. Love that, I love it. Well, we will make sure that we add all of your contact information to the show notes as well, but what advice would you have for our listeners, something that we have not touched on today, that you're feeling led to share with our listeners?

Speaker 3 22:06

One thing that is actually coming more in the forefront, like I've mentioned. I've mentioned it a bit to say that emotions are the evidence of life, and here's the thing when I talk about being honest with ourselves, being open, where are we not connecting to that? It's got into because I'm speaking but there's other information coming through and I didn't intend to go in there, but it's gonna like talk about then let's go there. That's it. It's got interesting because, uh, I was given this death acronym and I was just laughing when this came through. I was like, oh please, you fucking kidding me. You want me to go around and talk about death? Heck, yes. So death is like the important part of our beingness and for us to be who we truly are, we get to be comfortable with letting who we are not to die, and often we want to resurrect an old version of us. We want to resurrect everything that was, and this is where we get stuck. The resistance at times is coming from this and often this is where, like this, is what is holding many people back. So how do we feel about death? Just allowing whatever that is to just die, whatever that is, we know at times it's a relationship that has long lived its time. You know a marriage that has long lived its time. You know a marriage that has long lived its time. Like I said, I was married for, I mean, five years. It's kind of like it's nothing, but that was. That was like many lifetimes, especially if you're in a relationship that is sucking life out of you. And one other thing that also like for me that was important was I had a choice. Am I gonna choose to sustain the marriage at the expense of myself? Or am I gonna choose because even when I, like my ex-husband, was totally against what I do, he bought me some booths like oh God is just like a fantasy, kind of like. His words were like I wish I can meet, I can, I wish I can connect with the person that I met. You know the intelligent you, so the accounted version of myself and all it was like more the intelligent. This aspect of myself is kind of like just like I don't know who the fuck you are, like you're just dumb and all that. And I had a choice. Am I going to listen to my truth or to his truth? Because at times we think that we are living our lives and all that, but are we in alignment with our truth, or the truth that we're born into, or the truth of our partners? You know, I'm just gonna go there. It turns family, because who you are and what you're here to be, do and have may be totally different from what your family expect or what they had are willing to listen to that.

Speaker 3 24:38

So, going back to the death I was given this to say healing the death of the feminine, and this is not the feminism like for us women. Is that creation part of ourselves? Is that also the kills, the uncertainty? Just basically the ocean. As we know, there is magic in the in that happens in the ocean. So, embracing this part of ourselves and this death, what it stands for, the distance for desires, for you to connect your soul desires.

Speaker 3 25:05

First thing, you have to die. Then go back to connect your desires. What is it that you truly desire? What turns you on? What is it that is calling you or pulling you towards it? Right, not waiting for things to collapse. And then you creating from desperation, because when you're creating, because you're running away from something, guess what? You're gonna keep on creating the same thing. You're gonna find something again to be displayed from, and all that and all that it's not inspiring, it's not expansive.

Speaker 3 25:31

And another thing is the emotions. Like I said, emotions are the evidence of life. So if you deny your emotions, you are denying life. You've got nothing to show at the end of the day, because whatever that we're doing, whatever that we to show at the end of the day, because whatever that we're doing, whatever that we're being at the end of the day, is not about what I had, it's how I felt and how I made other people feel. You know, that's amazing. And the e a, g, e a is the alignment, being in alignment with what is true for us, that is, the truth in alignment with our truth, and also having that trust in whatever that is being called to be born through us In the age. Guess what? That's your heaven or hell. So if you deny your emotions, you deny your social desires, you are not in alignment with the truth. You're going to live in hell. There is no hell that is going to happen afterwards. The hell is what we're experiencing right now.

Speaker 3 26:21

But the question is how much of us are we making love to? How much of us are we accepting, how much of us are we allowing? Like I said how much of you are you allowing your soul to express through you, to give birth through you, or you, turning around it, still holding into the beliefs that you were born into? Yeah, incredible, wow, back into that thing that I wanted to say in the beginning, before I was led to the death. The truth of it is you know what is true for you. You know how you wake up every day. You know is true for you. Yeah, you know how you wake up every day, you know how you go to bed, you know when you wake up, like in the 3 am, and all that because I would say that the marker was something that makes us determine in mind the right place.

Speaker 3 27:04

Am I being me? The level that we are fully free? It's like freedom. How free are you like when you are with pam and natalie together and you share everything? Free are you like when you are with Pam and Natalie together and you share everything with yourself, but then, when we are with other people, you feel like I get to be this version, and then you know that something is not right. Right, how free are you to be you? How free are you to share your truth? Right, the level that you are free is the level that you are not fully joyful? We know it. And that is the level that you are not fully joyful. We know it. And that is the level that you are not fully loving.

Speaker 3 27:33

So we should stop lying and saying, but I love this person. Does that person know who the fuck you are? Or are you just showing the part of you that you want them to accept, which is what I call manipulation? At times, the wounds are guiding us, because the wound is always Looking for the light. At times, the wounds are always getting us to somebody who's gonna trigger that and not give us whatever that we hoped we're gonna get.

Speaker 3 28:01

I'm gonna get love from, maybe, my partner, like in my case, I was hoping I'll get love from my ex-husband, but I found a version of my father that was addicted to alcohol and, as much as I wanted to hold on, and maybe he's gonna change, maybe he will be whatever that I imagined to be At the end of the day. When I was asked what part of you has a problem with his drinking and I was like, what kind of question is that? You know, because in my head it's kind of like we know that drinking is not good and I'm the spiritual person so I'm better than so. I was like, uh-uh, what part of you has a problem with this drinking?

Speaker 3 28:32

And I just had this download that my inner child is attracting people with alcohol addiction because deep within me I still want my father and I'm hoping that I'm gonna like something like I want to rescue my father through this man. Maybe they will love me when I rescue them. So I'm willing to see these things. And when we say somebody does not accept who, I am ask yourself am I accepted to who they are? That is for you. If all you love to fall in love with potential because when you are in love with the potential of who they could be, guess what you don't fucking love those people you love exactly. And that has not been unleashed yet.

Speaker 2 29:11

Yeah, and at times we project our own potential, even and it may never be released in this time, in this lifetime. Right, we may never see that version in this lifetime. Yeah, wow, two huge parts, and I'm glad that you didn't skip the death piece, because I think that's a powerful piece, right like being able to be at peace with the version of you and letting that die, that version of you that's not authentically, genuinely you. Can you release that and let that peace die off?

Speaker 3 29:40

Yeah, letting it go. Wow, sometimes it can be the one with rules, labels, positions. You know how it is. At times it's kind of like oh, you don't know who I am, I'm married, do you know how I am? And then all of that. Oh, you don't know who I am, do you know how I am? And then all that. If you let all of that go, who is remaining? Who are you without all that?

Speaker 2 30:00

full circle. Who are you without all of fill in the blank? Yeah, whatever it is. Thank you so much. This was very, very powerful and incredible. So grateful for you. Oh my gosh, thank you for tapping into your gift and sharing it with the world. Thank you for the work that you're doing and coming on the show and sharing it with our listeners.

Speaker 3 30:23

We really appreciate it I had a great time and I hope they all have a great time as well. The last thing that I can just say add up into that is that stop holding into information. Information is not transformation. Jump on the call or take one of the whatever offers that is given and do something. Take it and invest it on yourself Time and money. Say yes to yourself.

Speaker 3 30:45

We often say yes to everybody, but not ourselves. What if we start saying yes to yourself more often? Every time when you say no, ask yourself. Start with saying yes to yourself more often every time when you say you know, ask yourself am I saying no to myself? Let me say yes. Am I saying yes to myself or not?

Speaker 3 30:55

It's quite interesting because I did this short video just before I jumped in here on youtube about the breaking, the avoidance you know. At times it's just like that you saying yes because I want to make natalie or pamela happy, but at the end of the day I'm like why did I go through this? Why did I do this? Every time you're betraying yourself when you say yes to somebody and no to yourself. So ask yourself how would you feel if somebody was doing that to you? Because now you're doing that to yourself, but it may sound like it's just okay because, yeah, I want to do it.

Speaker 3 31:29

And even when you're talking about making love to life, when I say yes, fully, and I say I'm going to be here and I show up, I'm happy, I'm making love with the energy and everything. It's also looking at it both sides. It's not just like I'm going to be present. Are you going to be fully present in your magnificent and share yourself with the world? What version of you are they going to get? The version that feels like I just have to honor the invite. Yet you know, this moment I wanted to be, whether crying myself to sleep or just watching a movie or whatever, and being fucking lazy and just be okay with it, right?

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Speaker 2 32:07

yeah, yes, yeah, be okay with it. Yeah, yeah, oh my, oh, my gosh, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. We appreciate you so, so much For our listeners. We will make sure to put house contact information in the show notes so that you can connect with her, learn more about her work and then, as usual, if you are interested in learning about what's happening in the world of Reignite Resilience, head on over to reigniteresiliencecom, or you can check out our Instagram and Facebook page. Hal, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. It has been a pleasure Until next time. We'll see you all soon. Thanks guys.

Speaker 1 32:45

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