"Girl, I've been thinking"
Girl, I’ve been thinking…
This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead.
Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for.
No motivation. No fluff.
Just conversations that feel like a mirror.
If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.
Podcasting since 2023 • 38 episodes
"Girl, I've been thinking"
Latest Episodes
he was cute until he wasn’t
subtle icks that instantly kill attraction . The ick. I asked women online. They didn’t hold back.It’s always something small.And then it’s over.<...
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Episode 6
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47:58
What If You’re the Red Flag ?… And You Don’t Know It?
What if the reason your relationships keep ending the same way… isn’t just them?In this episode, we’re talking about the patterns nobody wants to admit:falling for potential, overthinking texts, needing clarity too soon...
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Episode 5
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27:16
Why Some People Move On So Fast After a Breakup
Some people move on quickly after a breakup.Others barely survive the silence.In this episode I break down the pattern known as monkey-barring , when someone jumps from one relationship straight into another wi...
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Episode 4
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25:35
Why Being Replaced Hurts So Much
Being replaced can make you question your entire worth.One moment you’re part of someone’s life … and the next it feels like you’ve been swapped out like you never mattered. And suddenly the question appears:...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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28:53
You’re Not Hard to Love. You’re Performing for It.
Have you ever felt like you had to be a certain version of yourself to be loved?In this episode, I’m talking about what it means to perform in relationships , to overgive, overexplain, overachieve just to feel secure. Where th...
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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24:46