"Girl, I've been thinking"
Girl, I’ve been thinking…
This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead.
Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for.
No motivation. No fluff.
Just conversations that feel like a mirror.
If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.
"Girl, I've been thinking"
Latest Episodes
Your Nervous System Is Addicted to the Old Story
You can’t create a new life with a nervous system that’s still loyal to the old one.In this episode, you’ll learn why you keep repeating the same patterns , and how to begin rewriting the story your body has been carrying for years.<...
The Toxic Side of ‘Healing’ No One Talks About
You think you’re healing.But what if you’re just… performing it?In this episode, I’m calling out the version of “healing” that looks good on the surface like love, light, high vibes ,but quietly avoids the real work.The sup...
How to Move On After a Breakup or Ghosting (When You Didn’t Get Closure)
You don’t miss them.You miss what you thought it could be.That’s why you keep going back ,even when it’s over.In this episode, we talk about:•why you feel stuck after a breakup or ghosting•why closu...