"Girl, I've been thinking"
Girl, I’ve been thinking…
This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead.
Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for.
No motivation. No fluff.
Just conversations that feel like a mirror.
If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.
"Girl, I've been thinking"
From Gaslight to Glow Up: Reclaiming Your Power After Narcissistic Abuse
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Are you tired of second-guessing your reality? Still picking up the pieces after a toxic relationship? This episode is your lifeline. Dive deep into the hidden world of narcissistic abuse as we expose the manipulative tactics—gaslighting, love-bombing, and emotional sabotage—that keep survivors trapped.
✔️ Decode the narcissist’s playbook (you’re NOT crazy).
✔️ Share jaw-dropping survivor stories of escape and empowerment.
✔️ Reveal actionable steps to break free, heal your self-worth, and THRIVE.
Whether you’re still in the chaos, freshly out, or rebuilding—this is your roadmap to turning pain into purpose. Hit play, and let’s start your glow up.
Subscribe now and reclaim the life they tried to steal.
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