"Girl, I've been thinking"
Girl, I’ve been thinking…
This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead.
Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for.
No motivation. No fluff.
Just conversations that feel like a mirror.
If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.
"Girl, I've been thinking"
Why People Fear Your Reflection (And How to Stay Unshaken)
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What if the way people react to you… isn’t really about you?
In this raw and reflective episode, I invite you into the truth behind your light:
You are a mirror.
Some will feel seen in your presence—and love you for it.
Others will be triggered, afraid, even distant. And that has nothing to do with your worth.
We explore:
- Why your light activates both love and resistance in others
- The difference between projection and reflection
- How to stay rooted when your presence makes others uncomfortable
- The sacred power of being a mirror—and how to protect your peace while holding it
This is your reminder:
You’re not too much.You’re just a clear reflection.And you don’t need to dim your light to keep others comfortable.
If this episode stirred something in you… if your soul whispered “this is me”…
You’re not here to keep shrinking. You’re here to heal and expand.
My 1:1 coaching is for the ones ready to meet themselves fully, rewrite old patterns, and stand in their light …. unapologetically.
First 2 sessions are free so we can see if we match
💌 DM me the word “authenticity” on Instagram [@monica_cotolan or girlivebeenthinkingpodcast ] to begin your journey.
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📩 SEND me an email at cotolanmonica@yahoo.com
When you’re ready, I’ll be here. 🤍