Why People Fear Your Reflection (And How to Stay Unshaken)

What if the way people react to you… isn’t really about you?

In this raw and reflective episode, I invite you into the truth behind your light:

You are a mirror.

Some will feel seen in your presence—and love you for it.

Others will be triggered, afraid, even distant. And that has nothing to do with your worth.

We explore:

• Why your light activates both love and resistance in others
• The difference between projection and reflection
• How to stay rooted when your presence makes others uncomfortable
• The sacred power of being a mirror—and how to protect your peace while holding it

This is your reminder:

You’re not too much.You’re just a clear reflection.And you don’t need to dim your light to keep others comfortable. ✨

If this episode stirred something in you… if your soul whispered “this is me”…

You’re not here to keep shrinking. You’re here to heal and expand.

My 1:1 coaching is for the ones ready to meet themselves fully, rewrite old patterns, and stand in their light—unapologetically.

First 2 sessions are free so we can see if we match ✨

💌 DM me the word “authenticity” on Instagram [@monica_cotolan   or  @totallymyselfpodcast ] to begin your journey. 

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📩 SEND me an email at cotolanmonica@yahoo.com

When you’re ready, I’ll be here. 🤍