"Girl, I've been thinking"
Girl, I’ve been thinking…
This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead.
Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for.
No motivation. No fluff.
Just conversations that feel like a mirror.
If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.
"Girl, I've been thinking"
You’re Not Hard to Love. You’re Performing for It.
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Have you ever felt like you had to be a certain version of yourself to be loved?
In this episode, I’m talking about what it means to perform in relationships , to overgive, overexplain, overachieve just to feel secure. Where that pattern starts, how it shows up quietly, and what it takes to stop tying your worth to how well you’re received.
If you’ve ever felt exhausted from trying to be “enough,” this one is for you.
Stay connected:
@monica_cotolan
@girl_ive_been_thinking_podcast
For collaborations or private inquiries:
cotolanmonica41@gmail.com
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