"Girl, I've been thinking"
Girl, I’ve been thinking…
This podcast is for the woman who feels awake — but restless. Who’s tired of performing healing and ready to be honest instead.
Hosted by Monica Cotolan, Girl, I’ve Been Thinking is an intimate, unfiltered podcast about identity, emotional patterns, self-betrayal, and becoming the person your life is asking for.
No motivation. No fluff.
Just conversations that feel like a mirror.
If you’re ready to stop circling your potential and actually meet yourself, press play.
"Girl, I've been thinking"
Why Some People Move On So Fast After a Breakup
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Some people move on quickly after a breakup.
Others barely survive the silence.
In this episode I break down the pattern known as monkey-barring , when someone jumps from one relationship straight into another without ever sitting in the space between.
And why it can feel so personal when it happens to you.
Through a story from my own 7-year relationship, I explore the pattern of people who are always “in love,” the panic that can show up after a breakup, and what it really means when someone replaces connection with relief.
This episode is for anyone who has ever wondered:
Did they actually move on…
or were they just afraid to be alone?
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