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Gender and the Education Gap: Dr. Charlotte Jacobs and Dr. Roderick Carey on Boys, Girls, and Student Belonging

David Harris Season 3 Episode 7

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In this thought-provoking episode of The Teacher’s Forum, David Harris is joined by Charlotte Jacobs and Roderick L. Carey to examine the narratives shaping conversations about gender and education. The episode opens with a classroom incident that raises questions about how boys experience discipline, attention, and belonging in schools (01:44), before turning to reactions to the CBS documentary Boys to Men and the media framing of a so-called “boy crisis” (04:05).

The conversation critiques this framing by situating it in historical and social context, including how Black boys have long been viewed as problems to be managed rather than young people to be supported (06:35). Dr. Jacobs challenges zero-sum thinking around resources for girls and boys, emphasizing that equity work for girls addressed centuries of exclusion and remains unfinished (09:25). Dr. Carey reframes the idea of boys being “overlooked,” arguing instead that Black boys are hyper-visible in discipline but emotionally invisible in schools (12:56).

The discussion then explores how boys are navigating a changing cultural landscape, including the pull of the “manosphere” and growing skepticism about traditional college-to-career pathways (15:00). Both guests stress the importance of validating boys’ interior lives (20:30) and moving from a narrow focus on achievement toward self-actualization and well-being (24:45). The episode concludes with a call to reimagine schools as centers of care rather than test-driven institutions (29:05), along with recommended readings that center healing, love, and human flourishing in education (32:45).


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