The Narcissism Decoder
The Narcissism Decoder is a podcast dedicated to exploring the many dimensions of narcissism through a psychoanalytic lens. Each episode unpacks the intricate factors and behaviors that shape narcissistic traits, offering a deeper understanding of what lies beneath the surface.
Together, we navigate the tools and strategies essential for recognizing, understanding, and effectively engaging with narcissistic individuals. With a blend of compassionate insight, expert guidance, and compelling stories, this podcast aims to transform the way you perceive and approach narcissism.
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The Narcissism Decoder
Borderline vs Narcissistic Personality: Behind the Scenes | Epi 125
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In this behind-the-scenes episode, I take you inside my clinical thinking as I explore how the same behaviors—withdrawal, silence, or disengagement—can signal very different dynamics in narcissistic versus borderline personality organization. You’ll learn how to tell if a person is operating from NPD or BPD, what drives these reactions, and how to recognize the first micro-moment before anger or panic takes over. Whether your noticing these patterns in yourself or a loved one, this episode gives a clear, psychodynamic perspective on what’s really happening beneath the surface.
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