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The Narcissism Decoder
The Narcissism Decoder is a podcast dedicated to exploring the many dimensions of narcissism through a psychoanalytic lens. Each episode unpacks the intricate factors and behaviors that shape narcissistic traits, offering a deeper understanding of what lies beneath the surface.
Together, we navigate the tools and strategies essential for recognizing, understanding, and effectively engaging with narcissistic individuals. With a blend of compassionate insight, expert guidance, and compelling stories, this podcast aims to transform the way you perceive and approach narcissism.
Subscribe now to ensure you don't miss a single episode of this transformative journey.
Episodes
78 episodes
From Codependency to Interdependence (Recorded Interview)
In this conversation, Valerie Greene discusses the concept of codependency, contrasting it with interdependence. She explains how codependency is rooted in childhood experiences and emotional neglect, leading individuals to prioritize others' n...
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Episode 76
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30:40
How to Tell If You’re With a Narcissist (Recorded Interview)
In this episode, I share a clip from my interview on Valerie Greene’s podcast, Soul Shaking Love, where we explore two of the biggest questions people ask about narcissistic relationships: how to recognize if your partner is on t...
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Season 2
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Episode 75
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27:05
Mastering Negotiation with Narcissists (Recorded Interview)
In this conversation, I sit down with Rebecca Zung, an expert in negotiating with narcissists. We discuss the complexities of negotiation when dealing with individuals who exhibit narcissistic traits. She emphasizes the importance of emotional ...
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Episode 74
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28:42
Healing from Betrayal: Insights and Discoveries (Recorded Interview)
In this episode of the Narcissism Decoder, Dr. Anthony Mazzella interviews Dr. Debi, a leading expert in betrayal recovery. They explore the unique trauma of betrayal, its profound impact on trust and identity, and the healing process. Dr. Debi...
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Episode 73
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33:00
Understanding the Toxic Power Struggle: A Case Study
In this episode, we explore the toxic power struggles inherent in vulnerable narcissism, particularly through the lens of parenting dynamics. We examine how dependency, control, and the cycle of shame play out in parent-child relationships. Thi...
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Episode 72
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29:16
Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse (Recorded Interview)
In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella and Jin explore the cult-like dynamics of narcissistic relationships and the profound psychological toll they take on victims. They discuss how survivors often struggle with a loss of identity, the lingerin...
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Season 2
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Episode 71
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31:29
I Know My Partner is Narcissistic – Why Can’t I Leave? (Recorded live interview)
In this episode, I sit down with Jin from Narc Troopers—a writer, educator, podcaster, and narcissistic abuse recovery facilitator— to explore the psychological dynamics that keep people stuck in toxic narcissistic relationships and wh...
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Season 2
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Episode 70
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33:26
Narcissistic Relations: When to Walk Away (Recorded Live Interview Part 2)
This episode is Part 2 of my conversation on Dimming the Gaslight with hosts Mac and Phil, where we dive even deeper into the complexities of narcissism. We explore the motivations behind narcissistic behavior, the struggle with forgiv...
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Season 2
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Episode 69
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30:51
Covert Narcissism: The Impact of Emotional Manipulation (Recorded Live Interview)
In this episode, we explore the insidious impact of covert narcissism on parent-child relationships with expert Renee Swanson. We discuss how emotional manipulation can masquerade as love, creating lasting confusion and self-doubt. We examine h...
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Season 2
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Episode 68
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33:11
Live Q & A: Trapped! The Real Reason You Can’t Walk Away
I’m really excited to share some big news with you—this Friday, March 14th, at 7 p.m. EST, I’ll be going LIVE on YouTube for a special podcast recording with Lisa Taylor Austin! We'll explore why people stay in relationships with narcissi...
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Can a Narcissist Change? (Recorded Live Interview Part 1)
This episode is Part 1 of my conversation on Dimming the Gaslight, where I was a guest with hosts Mac and Phil. They asked some fascinating questions as we explored various aspects of narcissism—its emotionality, neediness, and ties to...
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Season 2
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Episode 67
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28:28
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The Key to Healthy Relationships: Not Just Apologizing (Recorded Interview Part 2)
In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, I’m joined once again by Josh as we continue our conversation on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships post-divorce. Josh shares further insights into effective co-parenting stra...
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Season 2
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Episode 66
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29:29
Co-Parenting After Divorce: Overcoming Codependency (Recorded Interview Part 1)
In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, I’m joined by Josh, who shares his personal journey through divorce and co-parenting. Together, we explore the emotional complexities of divorce, the impact of codependency on relationships, a...
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Episode 65
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29:52
Emotional Vulnerability in Narcissistic Relationships: A Personal Perspective (Recorded live interview Part 2)
This is part two of my interview with Darren, a therapist and coach. In this episode, we dive deeper into the complexities of relationships involving narcissistic individuals. Together, we explore therapeutic approaches to understanding and man...
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Season 2
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Episode 64
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28:50
Unpacking Narcissism: A Personal Perspective (Recorded live interview Part 1)
In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, I’m joined by Darren, a therapist and coach. Together, we dive into the complexities of relationships involving narcissistic individuals. Darren shares his personal journey of recognizing narc...
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Season 2
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Episode 63
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29:59
How to Deal With a Narcissistic Adult Child - Recorded Interview 2
In part two of the conversation, Shannon and I continue exploring the complexities of managing relationships with adult children who exhibit narcissistic tendencies. Shannon emphasizes the importance of first fostering a healthy relationship wi...
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Season 2
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Episode 62
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32:06
How to Recognize Narcissistic Traits in Adult Children: Key Patterns Parents Should Know - Recorded Interview 1
In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, I’m joined by therapist, author and coach Shannon. Together we explore the complexities of relationships between parents and their adult children, particularly focusing on narcissistic traits ...
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Episode 61
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30:15
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Unpacking the Hidden Layers of Vulnerable and Grandiose Narcissism: Step 2 of Relationship Growth
In this episode, we delve deeper into narcissism and explore the intricate dynamics of vulnerable and grandiose self-states, focusing on Step 2: Containment and Relating. Central to this discussion is the concept of "reenactment," which highlig...
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Season 2
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Episode 60
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29:06
How to Navigate Vulnerable Narcissism: The True Meaning of Empathy
In this episode, we delve into the complexities of vulnerable narcissism, exploring its characteristics, emotional needs, and the importance of empathy and containment in fostering healthier relationships. Emphasis is on the concept of containm...
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Episode 59
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31:07
How to Relate to a Vulnerable Narcissist: Key Strategies and Insights (Recorded Live Discussion)
In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, Lisa Taylor-Austin and I explore the complexities of vulnerable narcissism, with a focus on therapeutic approaches and practical ways to relate to a vulnerable narcissist in your life. We delv...
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Episode 58
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35:58
Vulnerable Narcissism: The Dynamics Behind Control and Helplessness
In this episode, we explore the theme of helplessness in relationships, particularly focusing on how vulnerable narcissism and emotional dependency manifest in interpersonal dynamics. We look closely at the roots of these behaviors in childhood...
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Episode 57
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26:09
Navigating Narcissistic Relationships: Why Self-Regulation is Essential-Recorded Interview - 2
In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, I’m joined once again by therapist and author Kristal DeSantis, who returns to share another vital strategy for staying safe in relationships with narcissistic partners. This time, we focus on...
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Season 2
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Episode 56
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25:19
Special Holiday Announcement
As the holiday season approaches, I want to thank you for your ongoing support and share my gratitude for your time and engagement each week. The holidays can be a mix of joy and challenges, especially when complex family dynamics arise, so ple...
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Two Powerful Strategies to Protect Yourself in Narcissistic Relations - Recorded Interview - 1
In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, I’m joined by therapist and author Crystal DeSantis. Together we explore the complexities of navigating relationships with narcissistic partners. Crystal talks about the importance of self-awa...
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Episode 55
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28:32
Borderline Personality Disorder and The Hidden Danger of Abandonment
In this episode, we delve into the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and its similarities with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). The conversation explores the emotional struggles faced by individuals with BPD, p...
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Episode 54
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26:15
