The Narcissism Decoder
The Narcissism Decoder is a podcast dedicated to exploring the many dimensions of narcissism through a psychoanalytic lens. Each episode unpacks the intricate factors and behaviors that shape narcissistic traits, offering a deeper understanding of what lies beneath the surface.
Together, we navigate the tools and strategies essential for recognizing, understanding, and effectively engaging with narcissistic individuals. With a blend of compassionate insight, expert guidance, and compelling stories, this podcast aims to transform the way you perceive and approach narcissism.
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The Narcissism Decoder
What to Do When a High Conflict Relationship Spirals Out of Control | Epi 144
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In this episode - part 2 of 3 - we get into what to do in the exact moment a conflict starts to spiral out of control. When things escalate fast—name-calling, defensiveness, shutting down—it can feel like you’ve already lost control of the interaction. We walk through how to catch that shift as it’s happening, understand what’s being triggered underneath it, and respond in a way that doesn’t make things worse. The focus isn’t on winning the argument, but on slowing the escalation and changing the pattern in real time.
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