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Am I the jerk for making my ex-wife adhere to her words and boundaries? She told me back in December that she would be the last resort if I needed to pick up our child. She said she would give me the same thing if I needed assistance. However, she hasn’t followed through on those boundaries since then. When I hold her accountable, she gets upset and makes a confrontation. Additionally, she’s constantly disrupted my schedule since I started my current job 18 months ago. She also disregarded the boundaries of her family. When we broke up, she told me not to worry about her or our son, only about our daughter. So, I’ve been respecting her boundaries ever since. I’ve given her everything she’s asked for. With that being said, she’s even sent me texts asking about women, my children, and who’s around our daughter. What’s more, she asks about my schedule. In my mind, if you’re the last resort, how can you claim to care about what’s going on? Am I the jerk for making her adhere to her words and boundaries?
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How can I get advice from your show?
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love you two from an old married lady-it’s make me smile to hear the love you guys have:)😄
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