Life After I Do Podcast
Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.
In their 24 years together and 10 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.
Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.
Episodes
158 episodes
Defend Your Spouse
Defend Your Spouse turns marriage into a courtroom, and Nesha G and Moelethal have to defend each other against accusations that feel a little too real. From being late, spending money, starting arguments, using tiredness as an excuse, exaggera...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 41: Accountability Is Expensive
Our 2 Cents Vol. 41 is about accountability, boundaries, family entitlement, money, respect, and the messy situations people create when they take advantage of someone’s kindness. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal respond to Booski stories...
Quality Over Quickies
Quality Over Quickies is about sex, intimacy, desire, timing, and why married couples need more than rushed moments to stay connected. In this episode of Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal talk about how often married couples are having sex...
It’s the Little Things: Consideration in Marriage
Consideration in marriage is one of those things that can look small from the outside but feel huge inside the relationship. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal talk about what it means to truly consider your spouse, from communication, gas ...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 40: Call Their Bluff
Our 2 Cents Vol. 40 relationship advice starts with family, boundaries, money, messy exes, and the hard truth that people will keep taking advantage of you when you keep making room for their behavior. Nesha G and Moelethal respond to Booski st...
Setting Boundaries: Parenting Edition
Setting boundaries with your kids is not about being mean. It is about teaching respect, emotional regulation, responsibility, and the difference between having feelings and acting disrespectfully. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal talk ab...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 39: When Effort Isn’t Enough
Our 2 Cents Vol. 39 relationship advice starts with a heavy question from a Booski asking what else she can do to save a marriage where she feels like she is carrying the financial load, the mental load, the decision-making, and the intimacy. N...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 38: Friends, Affairs, and Consequences
Our 2 Cents Vol. 38 brings a full lineup of Booski stories about boundaries, friendships, family entitlement, social media expectations, cheating, and the complicated space between support and disrespect. Nesha G and Moelethal respond to situat...
Temptation
Temptation in marriage does not disappear just because you love your spouse. In this episode of Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal talk about what temptation looks like, when it becomes dangerous, and why self-control matters more than blam...
Would You Stay or Walk Away?
Would you stay or walk away if your marriage was tested by betrayal, secrecy, emotional distance, debt, family disrespect, or a loss of intimacy? In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal ask each other the hard relationship questions that most co...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 37: When Chores Become Resentment
Sometimes the smallest things reveal the biggest relationship issues. A trash bag left by the door, a credit card balance that keeps growing, a family dinner seating arrangement, or a visit that goes two hours too long can expose resentment, em...
How Marriage Changes Things
Love changes when life starts asking for more than butterflies. In this episode of Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal look at who they were then, who they are now, and what twenty-plus years of love, bills, parenting, sacrifice, attraction,...
Get to Know Us: Marriage, Mess, and Memories
Every great conversation makes more sense when you understand the people behind the microphones. In this episode of Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal take it back to the beginning and give new Booskis a deeper look at the love story, frien...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 36: Boundaries Go Both Ways
What happens when people create boundaries but only want those boundaries respected when it benefits them? In this edition of Our 2 Cents, Nesha G and Moelethal react to stories about co-parenting rules, friendship expectations, public judgment...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 35: Family, Money, and Boundaries
Being a good friend, partner, sibling, or parent should not require you to sacrifice your financial stability, emotional health, and peace just to prove that you care. This week, Nesha G and Moelethal return with another edition of Our 2 Cents,...
Is It Cheating?
Cheating is easy to define when somebody crosses an obvious physical line. The real confusion begins when the behavior involves secret messages, private lunches, emotional support, compliments, social media likes, deleted conversations, and fri...
Love vs. Like: What Really Destroys a Marriage?
You can love somebody deeply and still reach a point where you no longer enjoy being around them. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal unpack the uncomfortable possibility that marriages are not always destroyed by a lack of love, but by the ...
Then vs Now: Relationship Edition
Sometimes the biggest shift in a relationship is not losing love, it is realizing love has to grow up with the life you built. Between parenting fatigue, bills, emotional needs, family drama, and trying to keep intimacy alive when the house nev...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 34: Money, Pride, and Dating
Sometimes the biggest relationship red flags are not loud at first. They show up in the small choices, like canceling your girlfriend’s birthday dinner for a female coworker, letting your mother disrespect your wife, or pretending money does no...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 33: Love, Lies & Hard Boundaries
Sometimes the rule that protects you can be the same rule that exposes you. In this 33rd volume of Our 2 Cents, Nesha G and Moelethal get into the messy side of marriage agreements, money boundaries, addiction, family obligation, and the kind o...
Are You Overreacting?
Sometimes the argument is not really about the dishes, the video game, the slow text, or the family event. Sometimes the reaction is just the part your partner can see, while the real issue is feeling unheard, unsupported, or taken for granted....
Who Sacrifices More?
Marriage will make you ask a hard question: are we both sacrificing, or are we just keeping score? In this episode of Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal use their real twenty-year chemistry to unpack the invisible weight behind marriage, pa...
Finish the Sentence: Marriage Edition
A couple’s game sounds harmless until the answers start telling the truth. In Finish the Sentence: Marriage Edition, Nesha G and Moelethal use humor, honesty, and twenty years of chemistry to unpack the small marriage moments that reveal...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 32: The Disrespect Line
What do you do when your partner hears your boundaries—but chooses to ignore them anyway? Our 2 Cents Vol. 32 dives into the subtle ways disrespect shows up in relationships and how quickly it can escalate.Nesha G and Moe G unpack a powe...
Our 2 Cents Vol. 31: Marriage vs Addiction
Sometimes the real tension in marriage isn’t loud—it’s quiet, consistent, and slowly pulling you apart. In this volume of Our 2 Cents, Nesha G and Moe G step into the gray areas where love, effort, and accountability don’t always align.I...