Beyond Affairs

How to Get Your Spouse to Open Up: 9 Secrets to Communicating After Betrayal

Anne & Brian Bercht Season 2 Episode 12

When trust is shattered, it’s natural to want answers — all of them, right now. But it can be difficult to have productive conversations with your spouse after betrayal. In this episode, we reveal 9 powerful  secrets that help betrayed spouses create an open and emotionally safe space for their partner to speak candidly.

Learn why how you start the conversation matters, how to use silence as an ally, and what types of questions invite honesty — not defensiveness. We’ll explore why the full story often unfolds in layers, and how your responses in the moment can either build a bridge… or reinforce a wall.

Whether you’re desperate for answers or afraid of what might be said, this episode offers real, compassionate tools to guide your next steps. 

Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want.
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