Beyond Affairs
Building strong marriages and relationships after infidelity is our profession. We help you cope with a spouse's affair and betrayal, while giving you the tools to learn how to heal and find forgiveness.
Episodes
61 episodes
Questions You've Asked
In today’s episode, we answer questions from our listeners about healing after infidelity, and navigating the painful realities of betrayal trauma in marriage.Join Anne and Brian as they share expert guidance on some common...
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Season 2
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Episode 33
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34:40
The Role of the Unfaithful in Healing
What can the person who acted unfaithfully do to help their spouse feel? Where do they start? What's a betrayed spouse looking for in healing? In today's episode we dive into what the unfaithful spouse can do to help the brokenhearted spouse he...
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Season 2
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Episode 32
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55:11
How to Help Him Hear You Again
Why does he still get defensive, even after months or years of healing? In this episode, Brian and Tiffanie break down the hidden reasons men struggle to hear feedback after betrayal, and what actually helps them respond with openness instead o...
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Season 2
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Episode 31
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46:36
Stories of Hope: Monica, Megan, and Carol
In this episode, we’re joined by three courageous women whose healing journeys are still unfolding. Each of these women recently attended the Take Your Life Back retreat, a transformative experience designed to bring clarity, strength,...
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Season 2
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Episode 30
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46:36
Surviving the Holidays
How do you survive the Holidays after an affair? When devastation strikes, how do you navigate forward without crushing pain? In this episode we give you tips that helped us through our own devastating holidays, and we share the things we wishe...
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Season 2
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Episode 29
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44:52
Biggest Mistakes in Affair Recovery
This week, we’re diving into the mistakes we make while trying to heal. Anne, Brian, and Tiffanie open up about their own journeys, sharing the missteps, realizations, and lessons that shaped their healing. Whether you’re early in recovery or y...
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Season 2
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Episode 28
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41:50
How to Prevent an Affair
In today's episode we share 12 Keys to Preventing an Affair in your marriage. We’ll discuss important checkpoints to keep on the conversational table. Like how to stay emotionally connected, recognize areas of vulnerability, and k...
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Season 2
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Episode 27
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34:44
Divorcing with Dignity
If divorce wasn’t what you wanted but it’s where you’ve found yourself, this episode is for you. Learn how to walk through divorce with strength, and hope for a better future.
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Season 2
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Episode 26
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20:50
How to Pick Up the Pieces of Your Broken Life
What do you do when the person you loved and trusted most shatters your world through betrayal? Anne shares her own story of infidelity, heartbreak, and recovery, and the five phases every betrayed spouse experiences on the road to healing. She...
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Season 2
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Episode 25
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34:31
After the Affair: What Wives Wished You Knew
When trust is broken, what does it take to rebuild?Anne and Krista answer questions from curious men at the Man of Honor weekend. With honesty, strength, and grace, they explore what healing, understanding, and real change look ...
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Season 2
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Episode 24
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45:18
Life Changing: The Impact of Man of Honor
Brian sits down with several men who attended the recent Man of Honor retreat. The men open up about their experience, the bonds they created, and what it means to be a man of honor. Listen in and find out why these m...
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Season 2
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Episode 23
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32:13
How to Heal: The Key Factors Behind Affair Recovery
What makes recovering from an affair an attainable goal? In this episode, Anne, Brian, and Tiffanie, explore the key factors that impact how long healing takes after infidelity.Through personal stories and hard-earned insights, you'll di...
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Season 2
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Episode 22
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50:31
What Do You Do When Your Spouse Won't Talk About the Affair?
Anne tackles some tough questions we’ve received from listeners. Honest, vulnerable inquiries like: “Is it normal to still love my spouse after an affair?” and “Can couples or individual counseling really help us heal?” Drawing from over 20 yea...
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Season 2
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Episode 21
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33:14
How to Stop Obsessing When the Affair Partner Is Still in Your Life
Anne answers questions from listeners navigating the aftermath of pain and trauma that come from betrayal. With honesty and grace, she shares her journey of healing and offers heartfelt guidance on questions like, "How did you heal?" a...
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Season 2
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Episode 20
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33:14
Making Good Decisions
How do you make good decisions...especially when fear, uncertainty, and pressure are clouding your judgment?Anne reflects on her own early recovery experience, where she wished for a magical voice to guide every step. Joined by he...
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Season 2
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Episode 19
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49:21
Roadmap to Recovery
In today's episode Anne, Brian and Tiffanie share 3 important points on the Road to Recovery. In addition, they share the number one thing you need to know to minimize pain and accelerate healing, and reveal the two biggest mistakes...
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Season 2
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Episode 18
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50:21
10 Keys to Overcoming Bitterness
Have you struggled with bitterness after, your spouse's betrayal? Have you felt your dream has died? Do you wonder how you could ever possibly feel happy again? In today's Podcast, Anne shares with you 10 keys to overcoming bitterness. Li...
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Season 2
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Episode 17
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34:52
Isolation: A Hidden Barrier to Healing from Affairs
Dive into the challenging topic of isolation during affair recovery. Learn how isolation can show up in your recovery, and gather tools to help you heal from an affair. Anne, Brian, and Tiffanie also explore the dangerous cycle of self-im...
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Season 2
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Episode 16
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47:48
How to Know if There Is Hope for Your Marriage - The Women Tell All
Last week we asked: How Do You Know if There Is Hope for Your Marriage? This week, we get vulnerable with four women who’ve lived it. Some stayed. Some left. All of them share the turning point that changed everything.
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Season 2
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Episode 15
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1:12:43
How Do You Know if There Is Hope for Your Marriage?
Dive into the question so many couples face: Is there hope for our marriage? Anne, Brian, and Tiffanie explore the emotional phases many betrayed spouses go through after infidelity, the importance of having the right suppo...
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Season 2
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Episode 14
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1:01:21
What Men Have to Say About Getting Them to Open Up and Talk
Join Brian, Jeremy, John, and Mike, and learn 3 Secrets that will surprise you in getting your husband to open up.
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Season 2
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Episode 13
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51:43
How to Get Your Spouse to Open Up: 9 Secrets to Communicating After Betrayal
When trust is shattered, it’s natural to want answers — all of them, right now. But it can be difficult to have productive conversations with your spouse after betrayal. In this episode, we reveal 9 powerful secrets that help betra...
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Season 2
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Episode 12
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47:05
Triggers
In this raw and honest conversation, Anne, Brian, and Tiffanie unpack the complex world of triggers—those unexpected emotional landmines that surface in the aftermath of betrayal. Join them as they explore how triggers manifest in ever...
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Season 2
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Episode 11
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1:09:21
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
In this episode, Tiffanie sits down with Anne and Brian for a raw, honest conversation about one of life’s most heart-wrenching crossroads: should you stay and fight for your marriage, or walk away? Together, they unpack the unspoken fears, the...
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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1:02:47
Man to Man: Jeremy's side of restoration
In this episode, Brian sits down with Jeremy to dive into the aftermath of marital betrayal. What does it truly take to rebuild what’s been broken? Is restoration really possible? Jeremy shares the challenges he faced, the obstacles that held h...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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38:54