The Jen Keller Show

Stop Waiting to Be Chosen

Jen Keller Season 2 Episode 26

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How many times have you found yourself waiting…

Waiting to be invited.

Waiting to be included.

Waiting to be recognized.

Waiting to be chosen.

In this episode, we’re having an honest and empowering conversation about the subtle ways we hand our power over by waiting for others to validate, include, or elevate us.

Because here’s the truth:

The women who build the most aligned, impactful, and fulfilling lives aren’t waiting… they’re leading.

They choose themselves.

They go first.

They create the opportunities, relationships, and environments they once hoped to be invited into.

I share my personal experience of being “the inviter,” the internal battles that come with it, and the mindset shift that changed everything for me—from feeling overlooked to stepping fully into ownership and purpose.

Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:

  • Why waiting to be chosen keeps you stuck
  • The hidden ways this shows up in friendships, business, and leadership
  • How to reframe rejection and stop questioning your worth
  • Practical ways to start choosing yourself and taking action today

If you’ve ever felt overlooked, under-invited, or like you’re always the one going first… this episode is for you.

It’s time to stop waiting.

It’s time to choose yourself.

In a world where being perfect seems to be the goal- - it’s important that we know who’s we are & who we are. 


We aren’t called to be perfect - we are called to be better today than yesterday! - that’s it. It doesn’t have to be quantum leaps, in fact I believe that in the day to day -our little steps in the right directions! 

I am on a mission to help women become more of who they were created to be and less of who they were told to be.

And, that takes intention, that takes action

: My goal is to drop some wisdom, bring you resources and that takes community. 

The real unlock is the Inner Work, and that’s what we do here! 

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