The Hardcore Therapist

The Hardcore Therapist 115.5- Why Do I Panic When Someone I Love Pulls Away? Understanding Attachment Panic + Tools to Self-Regulate

Sarah

 In today’s episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I breaks down one of the most common relationship struggles: the panic that hits when someone you love pulls away — even just a little. If you’ve ever gone into fight, flight, freeze, or frantic texting mode when a partner goes quiet, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening inside your brain and body.

We explore:

  • How attachment patterns make distance feel dangerous


  • The neuroscience behind panic and “rejection alarms”


  • Why your nervous system reacts before your thoughts do


  • How this pattern affects relationships


  • And three powerful in-the-moment regulation tools you can use to calm your body and reconnect with clarity

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