The Hardcore Therapist
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233 episodes
The Hardcore Therapist 123- Kevin Seconds
Today on The Hardcore Therapist, I’m honored to welcome Kevin Seconds. Kevin is the frontman of the legendary hardcore punk band 7 Seconds, a group that helped define the sound, values, and heart of hardcore. For over four decades, his...
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The Hardcore Therapist 122.5- Eating Is Comfort When You Were Emotionally Starved
In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I explore why overeating, bingeing, or restricting so often develop in people who grew up emotionally undernourished even when their basic needs were met. Parents may have been physically present...
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The Hardcore Therapist 122- Maria (Doll Fest)
Today’s guest is Maria, the force behind Dollfest in Oakland, California. Maria created Dollfest as a radical act of space-making, centering women, femmes, and marginalized voices in a scene that hasn’t always made room for them. This isn’t ...
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The Hardcore Therapist 121.5- Why does a healthy relationship sometimes feel boring after chaos?
In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I explore why emotional safety can feel uncomfortable especially after trauma, intense relationships, or nervous systems conditioned to unpredictability.You’ll learn how trauma impacts attachmen...
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The Hardcore Therapist 121- Scott Winegard (Texas Is The Reason, Fountainhead
Today’s guest is Scott Winegard — bassist for Texas Is the Reason, chef, author, and expert in plant-based cuisine.Texas Is the Reason helped shape the emotional core of 90s hardcore, creating space for vulnerabi...
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The Hardcore Therapist 120.5- Eating Disorders: Genetics Load the Gun, Environment Pulls the Trigger
Eating disorders are not choices or failures of willpower. They are serious, brain-based mental illnesses that emerge when genetic vulnerability meets environmental pressure.In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I br...
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The Hardcore Therapist 120- Cindy Hulej (Cindy's Guitars)
Today on The Hardcore Therapist, I’m really excited to welcome Cindy Hulej. Cindy is the builder behind Cindy Hulej Custom Guitars, where she handcrafts instruments that are as intentional, expressive, and individual as the musicians w...
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The Hardcore Therapist 119.5- Pets & the Brain: How Animals Help (and Sometimes Don’t) Our Neurology
We love to say pets heal us but what does neuroscience actually say?In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist Podcast, I break down how animals affect the brain and nervous system, from stress reduction and emotional regulation ...
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The Hardcore Therapist 119- Knocko Nolan
On this episode of The Hardcore Therapist I spoke to Knocko Nolan is a retired NYPD and LAPD officer whose career spanned specialized units including Narcotics, Vice, CRASH, the Career Criminal Unit, and the FBI Joint Terrorism Task Force after...
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The Hardcore Therapist 118.5- Why Being the “Regulated One” Is Exhausting
If you’re the person who stays calm when everyone else is spiraling… who softens your tone, thinks twice before speaking, and keeps it together so others don’t have to… this episode is for you.Being the regulated one is exhausting not be...
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The Hardcore Therapist 118- Mike Judge (Judge and Youth of Today)
On this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I'm sitting down with Mike Judge frontman of Judge and, for those who truly know their history, the original drummer for Youth of Today. In other words… this one’s big.Mike has...
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The Hardcore Therapist 117.5- Why Your Brain Goes Negative First and How to Build Positivity on Purpose
Why does your brain always go to the worst-case scenario first? And how do you become more positive without lying to yourself or bypassing reality?In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I bre...
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The Hardcore Therapist 117- Tina Coyle
In today’s episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I amshining a light on someone whose impact on the hardcore scene has been felt for decades—even if she’s rarely stepped into the spotlight. Tina Coyle, wife of vocalist John Coyle, has bee...
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The Hardcore Therapist 116.5- How do I start healing from childhood trauma?
In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I breaks down what childhood trauma really is (including emotional neglect and attachment wounds), why healing can feel so confusing, and where to begin without retraumatizing yourself.<...
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The Hardcore Therapist 116- Don Rossington (Second Coming HC, Breakaway, and Rabid Lassie)
Today on The Hardcore Therapist, Sarah sits down with her husband, Don Rossington, a key figure in the Bay Area hardcore scene. Don’s work with Second Coming HC, Breakaway, and Rabid Lassie helped shape the raw sound and spirit of Northern Cali...
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The Hardcore Therapist 115.5- Why Do I Panic When Someone I Love Pulls Away? Understanding Attachment Panic + Tools to Self-Regulate
In today’s episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I breaks down one of the most common relationship struggles: the panic that hits when someone you love pulls away — even just a little. If you’ve ever gone into fight...
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The Hardcore Therapist 115- Chris Lohman ( Blackspot, Collateral Damage, Done Dying, and John Henry Holiday)
Today on The Hardcore Therapist, we’re talking with Chris Lohman — guitarist, vocalist, and true veteran of the Southern California hardcore scene. Hailing from Huntington Beach, Chris has been part of the scene since the mid-’80s, playing in b...
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The Hardcore Therapist 114.5- Perimenopause, Menopause & Your Mental Health — What No One Told You
In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I breaks down the truth about perimenopause, menopause, and the massive impact hormonal shifts have on anxiety, depression, mood, sleep, and cognitive function. She explains why so many women ...
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The Hardcore Therapist 114- Benny Capaul (The Boy Detective)
Today on The Hardcore Therapist Podcast, I’m sitting down with Benny Capaul — vocalist and co-founder of the high-energy ska-punk band The Boy Detective, born out of southeastern Michigan’s DIY scene. The band, which began as a recordi...
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The Hardcore Therapist 113.5- Who Are You When You’re Not Performing or Pleasing Others?
If that question hits a nerve, this episode is for you.In this powerful, science-backed episode of The Hardcore Therapist,I breaks down why so many of us become people-pleasers — from attachment to nervous system condition...
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The Hardcore Therapist 113- Brian Burdzy ( Hundreds of AU)
On today’s episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I’m talking with Brian Burdzy, the new frontman of Hundreds of AU. Brian stepped into a band with an established sound and history, and with their latest album Life in Parallel...
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The Hardcore Therapist 112.5- The Brain–Gut Connection & Neuroplastic Pain: Why Your Chronic Pain Is Real — And Reversible
Feeling stuck with chronic gut issues or back pain? Wondering how pain can be “neuroplastic” when it feels so real? In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I breaks down the science of the brain–gut connection, the role of the nervo...
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The Hardcore Therapist 112- Steve Larson (Insted, A-18, The Alligators)
Steve Larson has been a cornerstone of Orange County hardcore. You know him from Insted, A18, and The Alligators—and today he’s hanging out with me on The Hardcore Therapist Podcast. We talk about Insted signing with Epitaph Records, t...
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The Hardcore Therapist 111.5- Does Having a Spiritual Connection to a Higher Power Affect Mental Health?
Does having a spiritual connection to a higher power actually affect your mental health? In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I break down the research, the real-life examples, and the clinical insights so you can understand how spiritual...
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The Hardcore Therapist 111- Vennie Abreu (Spit Truth, Soul Search Therapy LLC)
Today on The Hardcore Therapist, I’m joined by Vennie from South Florida hardcore outfit Spit Truth, a band gearing up to drop their new EP Good For You this fall. Known for their raw energy and unapologetic honesty, Sp...
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