Rolling Through Negotiations: First Nations Leadership, BJJ & Business Strategy

Peter de Been on BJJ Lifestyle & Lessons from a 6th-Degree Black Belt

• Matthew Karakoulakis • Season 1 • Episode 69

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🥋 What happens when a pioneer of Australian Jiu Jitsu shares decades of wisdom on resilience, strategy, and the deeper meaning behind the art?

In this episode of Rolling Through Negotiations, we sit down with Peter DeBean, a 6th degree BJJ Black Belt and the first non Brazilian to earn a Black Belt in Brazil. As the founder of the Australian Federation of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (AFBJJ), Pete has spent over 30 years shaping the landscape of Jiu Jitsu in Australia, leading competitions, and mentoring generations of practitioners.

🎯 Key Takeaways:

  • Jiu Jitsu is Problem Solving: Whether it’s escaping a tight submission or navigating a tough business deal, Pete explains how Jiu Jitsu teaches quick decision making under pressure

  •  Negotiation Starts with Value: Pete shares how true negotiation it’s about offering something valuable. Instead of fixating on what you want, focus on what the other person needs. When both sides feel like they’ve gained something, agreements become stronger and more sustainable.  

  • A Strong Mind Wins the Fight: Pete shares powerful stories of mental resilience, from competing through injuries to overcoming self doubt. The strongest athletes and the best negotiators succeed not just by skill, but by belief, trusting in their preparation, adapting when things go wrong, and pushing forward even when the odds are against them.

This conversation is filled with deep insights on resilience, mentorship, and how Jiu Jitsu builds not just fighters but thinkers and leaders.

Follow Peter DeBean on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/debeenpeter/

New episodes every Thursday. Thanks for listening, and we’ll see you next time on Rolling Through Negotiations! OSS! 

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