Karin Walker - Family Lawyer - How to leave a Narcissist - the Practical Podcast
The term 'Narcissism' has been used increasingly to describe someone who is 'difficult' or 'unpleasant' - who treats other people badly. Narcissism is however a very real condition. Those who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder are very low in empathy and therefore particularly bad at maintaining long term personal relationships. As a consequence, those who work with couples who are separating are much more likely to encounter this particular pattern of behaviour during the work that they do. And it is most definitely a pattern, which, when properly understood is quite easily identifiable. Once identified it becomes possible to plan a strategy intended to minimise the impact of narcissistic abuse and achieve an outcome based upon informed decisions.
Taking the step to leave a toxic, abusive relationship requires a great deal of courage and support. It is vital to understand exactly what you are facing. You need to recognise that a narcissist is not likely to ever change. The only thing you can change is your reaction to their behaviour.
Family Lawyer, Karin Walker and her guests, all experts in their field, talk through the various issues you need to consider with numerous practical tips and pointers, providing invaluable help at an extremely difficult time in your life.
Karin Walker - Family Lawyer - How to leave a Narcissist - the Practical Podcast
How to navigate your way through the Christmas break
Despite the 'tinsel' and celebrations, Christmas can be a difficult time. When you are separating and have children, particularly if you are separating from a narcissist, the festive season can be fraught with complications.
Narcissists hate special occasions - and are keen to cause havoc and chaos for everyone around them unless, as part of their fake persona, it suits their narrative to look good to the outside world.
Trying to work through the minefield of Christmas arrangements can become all consuming. A narcissist will delight in any ability to take control and 'call the shots'. They will also delight in causing upset and distress at what should be a happy family time.
In this podcast I offer strategies to deal with these issues - to try to stay one step ahead of the game and anticipate a situation rather than simply react to it - whether you are in the early stages of separation or having to deal annually with your narcissistic ex.