Karin Walker - Family Lawyer - How to leave a Narcissist - the Practical Podcast
The term 'Narcissism' has been used increasingly to describe someone who is 'difficult' or 'unpleasant' - who treats other people badly. Narcissism is however a very real condition. Those who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder are very low in empathy and therefore particularly bad at maintaining long term personal relationships. As a consequence, those who work with couples who are separating are much more likely to encounter this particular pattern of behaviour during the work that they do. And it is most definitely a pattern, which, when properly understood is quite easily identifiable. Once identified it becomes possible to plan a strategy intended to minimise the impact of narcissistic abuse and achieve an outcome based upon informed decisions.
Taking the step to leave a toxic, abusive relationship requires a great deal of courage and support. It is vital to understand exactly what you are facing. You need to recognise that a narcissist is not likely to ever change. The only thing you can change is your reaction to their behaviour.
Family Lawyer, Karin Walker and her guests, all experts in their field, talk through the various issues you need to consider with numerous practical tips and pointers, providing invaluable help at an extremely difficult time in your life.
Episodes
17 episodes
How to deal with resolution of financial matters when separating from a Narcissist
Summoning up the courage to leave a narcissistic is a feat in itself. You may have made several attempts to leave, nervous of being subjected to narcissistic rage and anxious about what the future may hold. Deciding to actually take the step to...
Narcissism in the workplace - a conversation with Clare Chappell
So far in this podcast series we have focussed predominantly on narcissism in the context of personal relationships. But of course you will encounter narcissists in every area of life - and in particular in the workplace. We all spend a signifi...
Arrangements for your children in the midst of narcissistic abuse - an interview with Nick Anderson of 1KBW
Leaving a relationship with a Narcissist can be one of the most difficult and frightening experiences you might endure. Everyone will tell you to 'run away and never look back'. But what happens if you have children? Are they entitled to have a...
Choosing your lawyer
Once you have taken the enormous step to decide that you want to bring your relationship to an end you need to select the legal representation which is right for you. Finding the best person (or team) to navigate a path through the ...
How to spot a Narcissist - back to basics
In this episode Karin Walker goes right back to basics and explores the behaviour patterns which are likely to be demonstrated by someone who suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder.Narcissists and very charming and charisma...
Narcissism, Autism and Family Law - a discussion with Kelly Pougher
Kelly Pougher is the Founder and Director of Pougher-Round Solicitors, a bespoke law firm specialising in Family Law and Autism. With over 20 years' experience in Family Law, Kelly is dedicated to helping neurodivergent families nav...
The impact of domestic abuse - a discussion with Elaine Richardson
If you are in a relationship with a Narcissist it is highly likely that you will be subjected to some form of domestic abuse. Domestic abuse does not only refer to physical abuse but also emotional and financial abuse. The abuser will often see...
How to provide support to your child/relative/friend if they are in a relationship with a Narcissist
Watching someone you care about being subjected to emotional, financial or even physical abuse at the hands of their narcissistic partner/spouse can be heart-breaking and unbearable - particularly if the 'victim' is your child.It is so m...
The Co-parent Way - and interview with Marcie Shaoul
If you and your partner have separated, your preference may be never to have to see or speak to them again. This will particularly be the case where your former partner is a narcissist when 'no contact' will be the ideal position. If however, y...
The female closet narcissist - what to look out for and how deal with them
It is generally assumed that most Narcissists are male - which of course is wrong. Narcissistic Personality disorder is a condition which is not gender specific and can apply in the same way to both men and women.This podcast is i...
How to navigate your way through the Christmas break
Despite the 'tinsel' and celebrations, Christmas can be a difficult time. When you are separating and have children, particularly if you are separating from a narcissist, the festive season can be fraught with complications.Narcissists ...
Arbitration - a better way to achieve adjudication - a discussion with Tristan Harvey
In a high conflict dispute it is highly likely that one of the couple will drive the proceeding to Court - insisting that a decision is required by a Judge - thereby increasing delay and cost. Since 2012 in financial remedy proceedings and 2016...
How to prepare yourself for Court as a Litigant in Person (LIP) - a discussion with Richard Uridge
As we know, Narcissists thrive on the drama of the courtroom - especially post separation. When they are low on 'narcissistic supply' they are likely to try to take you back to court - especially in connection with child arrangements (particula...
Hybrid Mediation - a discussion with Suzanne Kingston
This podcast is intended for both family law practitioners and separating couples - explaining in detail the process of hybrid mediation and the benefits which it can provide. Following the change to the Family Procedure Rules in A...
Valuing a company or business - an interview with Kate Hart from Quantuma
Narcissists are very poor at forming relationships with others in every area of their life. As a consequence they will often be self-employed. Their lack of empathy can make them extremely successful in business but with that comes a lack...
Recovery from narcissistic abuse - An interview with Nova Gibson, author of 'Fake Love'
Nova Gibson is the Director and Founder of Brighter Outlook - Narcissistic Abuse Counselling Service, where she is the Primary Counsellor. She is the 'go to' Counsellor/expert on narcissistic abuse recovery in Australia. In the last 10 years sh...
What is 'Post Separation Abuse' and how do you minimise its impact?
Family Lawyer, Karin Walker discusses the impact of post separation narcissistic abuse and how to deal with this - ensuring that you do not unwittingly continue to provide narcissistic supply - even after the relationship is over