Karin Walker - Family Lawyer - How to leave a Narcissist - the Practical Podcast
The term 'Narcissism' has been used increasingly to describe someone who is 'difficult' or 'unpleasant' - who treats other people badly. Narcissism is however a very real condition. Those who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder are very low in empathy and therefore particularly bad at maintaining long term personal relationships. As a consequence, those who work with couples who are separating are much more likely to encounter this particular pattern of behaviour during the work that they do. And it is most definitely a pattern, which, when properly understood is quite easily identifiable. Once identified it becomes possible to plan a strategy intended to minimise the impact of narcissistic abuse and achieve an outcome based upon informed decisions.
Taking the step to leave a toxic, abusive relationship requires a great deal of courage and support. It is vital to understand exactly what you are facing. You need to recognise that a narcissist is not likely to ever change. The only thing you can change is your reaction to their behaviour.
Family Lawyer, Karin Walker and her guests, all experts in their field, talk through the various issues you need to consider with numerous practical tips and pointers, providing invaluable help at an extremely difficult time in your life.
Karin Walker - Family Lawyer - How to leave a Narcissist - the Practical Podcast
The impact of domestic abuse - a discussion with Elaine Richardson
If you are in a relationship with a Narcissist it is highly likely that you will be subjected to some form of domestic abuse. Domestic abuse does not only refer to physical abuse but also emotional and financial abuse. The abuser will often seek to present themselves as the 'victim' - attempting to suggest that in fact they have been subjected to abusive behaviour.
Elaine Richardson runs her own family law business. She is a certified trauma informed solicitor and lectures regularly on the topic of domestic abuse, providing domestic abuse training to family law practitioners.
Elaine is a hybrid mediator. She supervises and trains other mediators and family lawyers. She is the co-chair of the national dispute resolution committee for Resolution alongside Tristan Harvey.
During this discussion with Elaine you will learn how to recognise coercively controlling behaviour and all forms of domestic abuse and the steps which you should consider for your own protection. You will also gain an insight into the effects which trauma can have and the potential long term impact of being in an abusive relationship.