Raising Well Nourished Kids

57. Are We Doing Too Much for Our Kids? Raising Capable, Confident Humans

Georgia Harding & Jane Faulkner Episode 57

“If you do too much for your kids, you build your self-esteem by stealing theirs.”
 – Dr. Daniel Amen

This quote landed deeply with us - and it forms the heart of today’s episode.

As parents, we often step in to help, fix, or smooth the path for our kids. Sometimes it’s because we want to protect them. Sometimes it’s because we’re trying to avoid conflict. And sometimes, if we’re really honest, it’s because it just feels easier or faster to do it ourselves.

But what happens when we overdo it?

What do our kids miss out on when we take away the opportunity for them to struggle, problem-solve, or build confidence through experience?

In this thoughtful and relatable conversation, Georgia and Jane explore:

  • How over-functioning as a parent can quietly erode a child’s sense of capability and self-trust
  • Why resilience is built through real-life challenges - not by avoiding them
  • The influence of our own childhood experiences and how they shape our parenting patterns
  • The societal messages that equate ‘good parenting’ with doing more - and how to step away from that narrative
  • Personal stories, reflections, and practical examples of how to raise capable, emotionally resourceful kids (from toddlers to teens and beyond)

You’ll hear us reflect on our own parenting journeys, including the moments we got it right - and the times we didn’t. We talk about school hats, forgotten lunchboxes, frustration, independence, and the quiet but powerful lessons that come from letting our kids figure things out for themselves.

This isn’t a conversation about doing it all perfectly. It’s about pausing, reflecting, and asking gentle questions:

Am I helping, or am I holding them back?
Am I stepping in out of love, or out of habit?

Whether you’re in the thick of parenting younger children or navigating the teenage years, this episode offers encouragement and clarity for anyone wanting to raise confident, resilient, and well nourished kids inside and out.

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