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From Pissed Off to Poised- A Podcast for Busy Women Professionals
This podcast is designed to help overcommitted women, physicians, and
professionals move from being reactionary—often feeling anger and
resentment—to becoming more intentional and responsive. The goal is to
help you enjoy life while still getting everything that needs to be done,
done.
In this show, we’ll dive deep into how to shift from reacting to responding
when it comes to anger, while recognizing that the first step to making a change is building our awareness. I’ll also share practical tips on how to say "yes" only to what truly matters to you and create a calendaring system that works—one that honors your commitments to both yourself and others.
As a retired pediatrician, the co-founder of Virginia iSpine Physicians, and
a trauma informed certified mindset coach I have navigated multiple career transitions in life and am still evolving as I apply these concepts in other areas with grace and vulnerability. I want to share what I have learned over the years so that you can start to create more peace in your day to day life,
as you begin to shift from reaction to response.
From Pissed Off to Poised- A Podcast for Busy Women Professionals
Ep 37: Making Time for Authentic Connections
We all want real connection—the kind that goes beyond small talk and surface-level check-ins. I’m talking about those soul-nourishing friendships where you feel safe to let your guard down, to be seen and accepted just as you are.
But if you're anything like me, maybe you've noticed that building and keeping those kinds of friendships gets harder as we get older. Life moves fast. We’re juggling work, family, responsibilities—and before we know it, connection starts to feel like one more thing on the to-do list, instead of something that fills us up.
In this episode, I’m sharing a personal story that shines a light on why this happens—not just logistically, but emotionally. We look at how past experiences, especially those defining or difficult moments we don’t always realize still affect us, can shape the way we show up in relationships today. And more importantly, I’ll walk you through five powerful shifts you can start making right now to create and nurture the kind of friendships you deeply crave.
Because you deserve meaningful connection. And it is possible—even in the chaos of adulthood—to find and hold onto those safe, life-giving relationships. Let’s talk about how.
What You'll Learn:
- How connection impacts not just our lifespan, but our healthspan—and how even small efforts to connect can create powerful ripple effects.
- Why emotional memories and trauma shape our ability to connect—and why forming meaningful relationships often requires more intention and time.
- How rupture and repair affect our friendships—and how relationships can deepen when we’re willing to own our part in conflict.
- How to let go of a friendship that has run its course—and why this isn’t a failure, but a natural and necessary completion.
Featured:
- Find more insights about trauma from Resmaa Menakem.
- Read more from Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown.
- Join Arpita at Miraval in Tucson, AZ where she is a guest speaker for Thought Leaders Week this June, 2025.
- Learn about Arpita's next Circle of Six Small Group Coaching Cohort HERE.
- Learn more about Dr. Arpita Gupta DePalma's programs with Thought Work, MD, including 1-to-1 coaching for individuals, group coaching cohorts for organizations, and her online self-study courses HERE.
- Transforming Your Anger From Reaction to Response Online Self Study Course with Dr. Arpita Gupta DePalma.
