Ep 58: How Can Ambitious Women Create High Impact, Influence and Income Without Losing Their Authenticity & Joy with Bolutiwi Aiyesimoju

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Key Takeaways:

💡 Why forgiveness is essential for releasing old patterns and unlocking your true potential.
💡 Four transformational steps to shift from burnout to alignment: See, Surrender, Shift, and Stay.
💡 How ambitious women can reconnect with their intuition and femininity to create a life they love.

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Transcript

Have you ever felt like chasing success means that you have to give up a part of yourself, like you're constantly hustling, but it's draining you more than it's fulfilling you.

I've been thinking about this for a long time that how ambitious women like us can create real impact and success without losing who we are in the process.

And what if we could lead with authenticity and make a difference and still have peace and joy in our lives?

That's exactly what I'm going to talk about in this episode.

How can we build the life and career we always wanted without sacrificing ourselves along the way?

And I think you're gonna love this one.

Welcome to another episode of Super Charge Your Souls Transformation podcast.

I am so thrilled today to introduce our guest Bolutiwi Aiyesimoju, she is in London.

She's a powerhouse of wisdom and transformation Bolutiwi's 22 year journey spans a successful international corporate career and entrepreneurship, giving her unique insights into the highs and lows of ambitious women who faced in the pursuit of success, having personally experienced the toll of burnout.

She turned this challenge into an opportunity for deep transformation And today she's the number one best selling author and her programs crafted with love and a commitment to sustainable growth have impacted over 65,000 leaders worldwide.

So get ready for an inspiring and practical conversation filled with actionable insights, art, and reminder of the power you hold to step into your magnificence.

Welcome to the show, Bolutiwi.

I'm so excited that you're here.

Well, thank you so much for having me dimple.

I'm excited too.

And those of you don't know, I found her on linkedin.

I love her videos.

She speaks like so fluently.

And then part of me was like, hm, who is this woman?

I need to definitely interview her and then my team looked her up and I was like, she is great.

She has a lot of wisdom and that's the wisdom I need to bring on to our audience today.

So Bolutiwi, my question for you today is my first question is how did your journey lead you to where you are now?

Like, what's your story behind it all?

Like, tell us.

So your team probably found that I used to be in corporate, I worked for a huge cosmetics firm for 14 years.

And when I entered corporate, I was super excited, super driven.

I, I would say at some point, I definitely was a workaholic.

Let's just call it out as it as it was work was the center of my life.

And I probably was even unconscious of the impact that that kind of lack of balance was having on me mentally, emotionally and physically.

And so in about 2013, I started getting this calls even before then.

There was this always this voice.

What are you doing?

Is this is this purposeful is what you're doing.

Does it have meaning?

And I'd rationalize.

Oh, but it's a good job.

It's a big company.

It's useful and of course, it is useful.

Beauty is useful.

Beauty is important and the problem wasn't beauty and the problem wasn't corporate.

The problem is when your soul that's getting its next level cool.

If you don't take the step, if you stay where you are at, you're going to start feeling cramped, it's going to start affecting you not only mentally, emotionally and also physically and mine led to burn out, right?

Because I was not only working with the intensity of a formula one driver and the dedication of a doctor on call for long periods of time.

That's one aspect, but the other aspect was I was going through the motions, but my soul had departed.

Hm.

This is not what you're meant to be, right?

You're going to ask a question.

Wow.

So tell our listeners, you know, you were working at a corporate job.

Obviously, you knew that wherever you're at, you're not feeling good.

That's why you had the burnout feeling.

So, what did that even feel.

How does it feel?

And I, I know this answer personally, but I'm going to shut up.

How does it feel when your soul has departed?

And what did actually happen in your body?

Mind and your spirit at that time?

I love it.

So the first signal interestingly enough, but I'm sure you can relate was not my mind.

My mind hadn't caught up, it was my body.

So I was beginning to have unexplained aches and pains.

I was beginning to become extremely sensitive to know like anybody's phone would ring and I'll be like, startled literally.

my hormones were all over the place.

So my cycle forget about it.

It was, I felt like I was losing control of my body.

I would go to the doctor and they'll be like, there's nothing wrong with you.

And I'm like there is something wrong, right?

And I remember one time a woman looks at me and she's a female doctor.

She says, are you stressed at work?

And I look at her like she's crazy and I'm like, no, like that's how disconnected I was from the reality of things.

Of course, I was stressed out of my mind.

And so those kind of things and also another thing, you know, I was a naturally sociable person and now social interactions felt heavy.

So I was in survival mode.

I wasn't thriving any longer 10 p.m. at night owl.

I'll be like a total zombie and even when you're tired, you're tired but you're wired so you're not really sleeping.

I mean, I have, there's a long list of things that can indicate when you're burning out.

Yeah.