Ep 93: Afraid To Be Seen? How Visibility Wounds Keep You Broke & Burned Out With Morgan Hamer!

This episode isn’t about hacks or hustle. It’s about the invisible wounds that keep brilliant women broke, burnt out, and invisible.

Morgan Hammer was doing everything right, good job, high-functioning, high-achieving, but deep down, she felt like a shell. Until her body said no. Until her soul said enough.

We talk about:

• The visibility wound: why being seen feels dangerous when your nervous system was wired to stay safe by staying small
• The lies women are taught: that success must come through sacrifice, silence, and self-erasure
• The trauma behind overgiving, undercharging, and staying loyal to systems that drain you
• How to walk through the fire of your fear — not by performing, but by choosing one small act of truth at a time
• Why your next level of abundance has nothing to do with how hard you work and everything to do with how safe you feel being visible. 

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Transcript

Because being seen feels like a threat, doesn't it? Not just uncomfortable and unsafe. Your heart races when you speak, your voice shakes when you post, and you overthink every word. Every outfit, every launch, I know I have been there. And because deep down you're still waiting for the backlash, the betrayal, the moment they turn on you. This is more than fear. It's called the visibility wound. And it's why so many brilliant spiritual powerhouse women stay stuck. They are burnt out. They're underpaid and invisible. And today on the Dimple Bindra show, we are exposing the truth behind why being visible triggers your nervous system, why the spotlight feels like danger, and how this wound is silently keeping you small, broke, and disconnected from your power.

My guest today is Meghan Hammer, manifesting mentor, real estate investor and the founder of Meghan Manifests. She helps high achieving women break through the inner blocks that sabotage their success so they can create lives and businesses that actually feel as good as they look. And after burning out in a corporate leadership role, she built her entire life through spiritual alignment. Subconscious healing and soul led strategy. Today, I am very lucky that she's on our show, and I need to tell you that she empowers women to ditch the hustle, heal their money wounds, and attract aligned abundance with ease.

She's built a seven-figure real estate portfolio, led powerful retreats, and helped hundreds of women rise from self-doubt into full overflow. Welcome to the show, Meghan. Thank you. I'm excited that you're here and I really feel a lot of women need your wisdom, especially when it comes to money. Totally. Most, you know, most of us have not been born in a rich family, but some of us struggle and struggle, and I'm so glad that you're here and you have chosen this path.

So I would like you to take us back to the version of you before you started Meghan Manifests and before that ever existed. Who were you before the burnout, before the magnetic life people see today?

I had very low self-esteem and low self-worth, my whole life, and I was bullied a lot in high school, like, I, I just wanted to be anybody but me, and, when I went to college, I had once again, just no faith in myself, no faith in the future, and I was just checking boxes to get by, like, OK, I'm going to get a degree, and then I'm going to get a master's degree in something that will make me money and make my mama proud, and then I'll get a job and like all of this was just like checking boxes, checking boxes, doing what I thought I had to do instead of like what is true to me.

And the checking boxes led me to a very lucrative career in commercial real estate, but It took a lot for me to finally say enough's enough and really try to learn a different approach to success. And once I was exposed to manifesting law of attraction, all the things like, neuroscience and all the things in that realm. I was hooked and so my career success was mirroring all of these learnings and The research that I was doing because I like to read a book or listen to a podcast and actually apply the wisdom that I learned, so I'm, it's worth my time in the first place. Like why read a book if you're not gonna apply the the tools. So I, I was just like collecting data, testing it out in my own life and having these beautiful like career up levels, but the one thing that I didn't know yet.

I was making more money and more money and, and having that success, but like it was at the expense of my well-being. I was in the work I was doing was not a lie and the company I worked for and grew was at the expense once again of my own well-being. My boss didn't value me. He looked at like paying me as a burden, even though I was the backbone of. The company and I was the reason we were able to grow from 7 agents to 30, you know, but I didn't know any better because my low, my low sense of self-worth, I felt like I had to overperform to be worthy of every dollar I made. I had to work hard and go to great lengths to prove myself in order to be able to get compensated more or less.

And it was this weird dynamic where like my, my sense of unworthiness was being mirrored back by my boss and eventually it just led to, I mean, I had a, a miscarriage. I had some other health problems come up. I mean, it was just like total. I don't know, Dark night of the soul kind of vibe, and I know you just asked me who I was before the burnout, but I'll just go ahead and, and, share the rest of the story.

So I was practicing what I preach in my manifesting programs regarding, looking for magnetic mirrors. These are the people that we intentionally seek out who either embody the character that we hope to have like confidence or motivation or energy, whatever, and or they're the kind of people who have achieved the kind of stuff that we hope to achieve. And so I reached out to a magnetic mirror and just as a Hail Mary like, hey, I'm really not OK at this, this current position, this brokerage that I'm in. I think I'm just gonna go out on my own and be a freelance commercial real estate agent. Do you mind if I pick your brain and get some advice?

And this, this meeting, the magnetic mirror said, hey, why don't we just open up a commercial real estate firm together? And Oh my God, wow, that's awesome. Total miracle, total like I never even imagined starting my own business. I just wanted to get the heck out of the place where I was and Because of the subconscious reprogramming work I had been doing, because I did keep that vision of like a better life, like I didn't know what the details of my career, but I did know, keep a vision of what I wanted ultimately.

I feel like that that came through, and then my first few months of this new business, I just kept manifesting money. It was like the universe was patting me on the back for going for my dream. And then came phase two. Phase two of self-employment. I started, after about 6 months in, I started getting hit with unexpected expenses, one after the other, and after about a year, I think it added up to like $600 worth of unexpected expenses in my first year of self-employment, which was like bringing up all the money stuff and I mean just being self-employed in general is, is a big Adjustment, but then throw on like all these extra things and it was just like, oh my gosh, I'm caving, like I can't believe it.

And then came the people dying, just left and right, loved ones, best friends, moms growing up, like all, all kinds of different people, friends from high school. I, I ended up losing over 20 people in a 2.5 year period while I'm going through the money stuff, while I'm starting a new business, while I'm trying to also start to cut my teeth in Meghan manifest and from that experience, that was where the real money breakthroughs came because I had to decide, am I gonna keep working, am I gonna like keep Hustling to make money for that sense of security, or am I gonna take some days off to go be with my dying grandparents who are my favorite people in the world and, or go be on the bedside of my best friend's mom as she has her last moments on earth.

I just kept doing the thing. I kept showing up for my people. I got to meet a version of Meghan who I do, I still can't believe it's, it's here, who's in me, you know, I, I've never been a caretaker. I've never been in medical settings, but all of a sudden now I'm like a this is a very familiar place and, and, and it's my pleasure to be there for these people.

So, from that experience, I learned that like, I do not believe death is the end. I do know that I have a like amazing tribe of angels on, on the other side here advocating for me. I get little signs and, and synchronicities all the time. And from that awareness, like, really. Anything is possible, like, and I just don't sweat the small stuff anymore and I know like in that time, I mean, I couldn't, my nervous system was like shut down. Like I couldn't work if I wanted to because there was just so much grief and so many big decisions to make.

And I was OK. Like I kept opportunities kept coming through. I manifested my first major speaking engagement. I mean, you know, like the blessings were still coming. And from that experience, that's what kind of jumpstarted me really wanting to go all in on Meghan Manifest because I want to help show all the amazing soul led women, especially soul led women in business, be able to get through life when life is lifing and still be able to manifest and not make money the end all be all of their wellness, their happiness, their ability to thrive.

Cool, wow. We've been through this crazy ride. Oh my goodness. I would like to know, and even the listeners, I would love you to say this, that was there like a breaking point for you or like a breaking point moment? I know you, you mentioned. mentioned miscarriage. I know you mentioned people dying in your, in your surroundings, but what was the actual breaking point moment? Something that cracked you open and made you realize, I can't live like this anymore. Like that's it. What was that moment?

Well, I think in terms of like deciding to radically commit to being true to my authenticity and my heart, that came when I kept trying to make the job work before I went out on my own. And one of the things that I kept insisting upon is doing more of the marketing stuff that I enjoy. Like I wanted to start a podcast with my old boss and he kept flaking on me. Like I did all of the things to like get it set up and then he sent me a text saying that he lives a big life and he needs me to be flexible. And that's when I realized, yeah, he gets to live a big life at the expense of mine and I could, that's when I was like, OK, this is, this is unsustainable, this is never gonna work.

And I was able to just start a new business from a clean slate and I strategically partnered with other people who complement my skill set, so it's not all on me anymore, and we're creating something greater than the sum of its parts. So now, you know, I own this business, it's, I love it. I'm lit up by my team, but it's not my whole life and it, it, it supports most of my livelihood and I only work 2 to 4 hours a week in it and that's because I learned all the things that my old boss did wrong and get to apply it here, but also like I'm not gonna own a company or a business unless I enjoy what I'm doing in that business.

And I think that's another thing that happens with women, especially like the so called soloreneurs is we think we've got to do it all on our own and that ends up setting us back so far. And I, I know a lot of people like they're like, Oh, I have this gift. Like you, you said that you do intuitive therapy, is that it? Yeah, you, you have that gift and, and you want to go and share this with the world. And oftentimes, like, there's nothing wrong with that. But what if instead of just going ahead and being like, I'm going to do this all by myself, you started a business with that. Bigger picture mentality of like, collaborate, don't compete. Like how can we create something greater than the sum of its parts.

From that awareness, I was able to create a business that lights me up and then have the bandwidth to be able to create more businesses that also light me up. Does that make sense?

Absolutely, you know, I, I totally agree because you basically went to that part of you that was so frustrated, especially with your boss, or frustrated with life, and then you're like, that's it, like I need to change this, you know, you're, so you realized it. And sometimes in life, I think we, we have to have these toxic bosses, we have to have these partners who don't see our light. Because the universe needs to make us feel uncomfortable first, and then we realize, oh, OK, you're uncomfortable.

Why are we so uncomfortable? Oh, because there is something comfortable coming up for me if I go in that direction. And so for you probably you figured it out and that's and that's amazing, but I would love for you to share, how did you even think or how was it like a feeling that you felt like, all right, I don't, you know, this is it. I need to really go in this direction. Was it like someone that guided you? You mentioned the person who you met with, like your partner, the commercial real estate person. That was one light that came into your life, you know, and, and showed you and then you're like, yeah, it feels good.

So what was your calling? Was it always to be in real estate? Was it to make money? Was it to help women make more money, like what was your actual calling that you felt at that time?

I feel like I I never really like gave myself the space to have a calling, if that makes sense. Like I couldn't, I didn't, I didn't have like the sense of worthiness to be able to daydream that much, you know, throughout most of my life and, I, but I always had this sense that like I was meant for something more and that's, and, and I've always had some kind of relationship with God, a higher power. And so that's what kept me going even when I was like a shell of a human being. But then I think the more that I was able to do some healing and especially realize that like on the other side of our fears, like if we go through that, that like thing that we're afraid of, on the other side of that is where the beauty, the growth, the like up levels come.

Having that experience, that's kind of was my entry point into manifesting and building my trust in myself and God in the universe and so on and so forth is like, OK. This approach to success does not work. Obviously, I need to kind of back up and maybe do the opposite of what I've been doing all along and walk through the fire of my fears and from that learning, then I was activated to discover, OK, this is something that works for me, this lights me up. I can't, I wanna share this with the world. Like this is what I want to help women who have are similar ambitious, driven, soul-led women.

Not have to fall on their butts as hard as I have in order to have success. And I, I don't think that we always have to like hit a rock bottom or go through a dark night of the soul or whatever in order to be willing to do things differently, but I think that we have to be informed enough and have a few experiences where we realize like, Actually we're like divinely held when we pursue our purpose and anything is possible, like, but you can't know that until you've gone through that experience enough.

So I feel like that's like kind of getting in the offense instead of the defense. Like when we're operating in defense, we're like, Kind of like waiting for the next shoe to drop or like trying to do the next right thing and like force and hustle and like whatever to get, get our goals and dreams. Whereas if we're on the offense, we don't have to have our whole world fall apart in order to be willing to do things differently. But I think you have to realize and like recognize from your own past experiences when you have had.

Success going through the fire of a fear coming out on the other side, OK, and leveling up. Does that make sense, like being able to reference your past experiences to know like, OK, this is OK, like I got through this. OK, instead of having to have my boyfriend, I don't know, cheat on me or something like that's like the worst case scenario. Maybe you'll realize when you have that nudge, that inner voice saying, my boyfriend isn't a good fit or my boss isn't a good fit, you're able to go ahead and act on that, even though you're scared, maybe you're, you're scared you're not gonna make money or you're scared you're gonna be single forever, like you go, but you go through that fire, that fear on the other side is always something greater and better than anything you could ever imagine.

I love that because my actual question that I was gonna ask you next was exactly about what did you really heal internally and, and from what you're saying is what you really healed internally was walking through that fear and seeing the brighter, you know, like the brighter side or the other side of fear. That's amazing. OK, perfect. Now I think it's, it's time for us to really drop the bomb on invisibility wounds.

Can you tell our listeners a little a little bit about that first, and then we'll get into what you know, basically what, what is invisibility wound and why do you think so many brilliant women don't realize that they have them?

I don't think we really realize any of the wounds that we have until we start to pay attention to patterns in our lives and start to pay attention to the the results that are coming through. And like, for example, for me, I had some serious abandonment issues. I had some worthiness wounds. I was told that it is not safe to take up space and be seen. So, I mean, these are some of the major things that are playing out in my life.

And so the abandonment wound, for example, I know you said invisibility, but I'm just, I want to show you a few examples of how this plays out. So the abandonment stuff, like I used to go for any guy that gave me attention. I'm like, OK, I love you. We're going to get married and be together forever. Same, same here. It also, yeah, so you know, you know what's up. I feel like a lot of us do know that as well.

And then there's the abandonment wound played out also in me and my job. I had a co-dependent relationship with my last boss, like, his happiness was my happiness. I didn't know you could have codependency with a boss. Or a job, you know, but that's, it's out there too. And then when it comes to my worthiness wounds, I mean, nobody wakes up in the morning is like, I don't feel worthy of success. Like, it's it they're nuanced, you know, but you can pay attention to the patterns in your life.

OK. I keep settling for people who don't, are not on my level. That's something mirroring back possibly a sense of worthiness. I keep signing up for working with clients that kind of suck and drain me because I don't feel deserving of these higher level people. That's a way that that unworthiness plays out, or maybe I'm not. I'm not showing up as my true self because I don't feel worthy of, of being who I am. I've been programmed to believe that everything about me is, is not OK, so I'm going to pretend to be someone else.

And then that plays into the, the invisibility. I mean, we get it honest as women in America or women in the world, honestly, because we're told that we have to be modest, we have to be subservient, we have to, it's not proper to take up space, it's not proper to have attention or spotlight or that kind of thing, and especially where it's, we're told that like.

I, we, our wins, our gains are like at the expense of someone else. So we need to always be giving and serving, or else somebody else is going to suffer. And so all of this keeps us playing super small and oftentimes we don't even realize because it's so innate deeply programmed in us that this is how we're supposed to be.

Yeah, I mean, it's just that one's really tricky and once again, it comes back down to if you want to heal this and work through this stuff, you have to start to walk through the fire of your fears. And if your fear is being visible, being seen, there are so many little tiny baby steps that you can take—a micro baby step on a daily basis—to start to reprogram your nervous system and your subconscious to believe that it's OK being seen.

And that's something that I've had to work through my entire life. Like, I was told that I was an attention whore as a kid. I was told that like, I, I don't know, my mom used the word ham. I don't even—do you know that word? For like being whatever—needing the spotlight? Well, anyway, so I went from this vibrant, like, I would choreograph dances for the neighborhood with all the kids and like have the neighbors, the old people come watch—that kind of thing. Like that's who I am at my core.

And as I got older, I had to shrink and stop showing up. And it got to the point where like I didn't, I never posted on social media because I felt like unworthy of being seen. I didn't send my emails like I should. I didn't reach out to people. I didn't show up authentically in networking. All of this stuff because of that programming playing out. And eventually I'm like, this is not sustainable. Like I am so disconnected from my truth. I'm going to have to start to walk through the fire of the fear of being seen so that I can be true to myself.

And on the other side of that is—you complimented my energy earlier—like this has come through even maybe a year ago. Like I am always peeling back these layers and I'm getting to meet a version of me that I never got to know before because I mean, she's always been there. I guess I saw her as a kid a little bit, but even then I was being told like I'm too much or, you know, that kind of thing.

So it's really been rewarding to get to meet the true me and also see how empowering it is for other women to see someone like me so energetic and lit up and high vibe and I mean, to be able to also attract other women because this is who I am, this is who I'm showing up as now, I'm able to manifest other queens into my life—even meeting you, you know.

Oh, thank you. Oh yeah, I tell the listeners, when you walked in, I'm like, damn, you're beautiful. I love your energy. You have this energy of a very powerful person. That's exactly. The first, the 1st 3 lines that I told her and I'm like, I want to take a picture so I can post it in the story. So yes, that's who you are, Meghan, and I'm so fortunate that I am even doing this interview with you because you coming from that background with abandonment issues, with issues from, you know, being not being seen and you're dimming your light and now you're shining and you're stepping into that power, it's a whole different ball game.

And from me too. It's the same story—abandonment issues, abuse, not knowing who I was. And I feel we women have these visibility wounds because of childhood trauma, betrayal, and patriarchy. It's just, it, we are conditioned to believe we are not good enough. That's not true.

So, OK, for the woman who's listening right now, who's always playing small, and you mentioned that that was a pattern in your life. Always second guessing herself. That was one of my patterns in my life. What are the signs that she's carrying an unhealed visibility wound? We'll move from that to the steps that you can give our audience on how they can come out of it, like what did you do? So we'll talk about how do they play small because sometimes women don't even know they're playing small. And then how can they come out of it and step into what you call it, walk into the fire of fear. No fear of fire, the fire of your fears, yeah. I love that.

So the question is, tell us about if a woman has a visibility wound at the moment, how is she really playing small at the moment? So then she can recognize, oh, you know what, this is my visibility wound.

Wow, there's so many ways that it manifests, especially with women in business. I mean, it really comes down to, as simple as posting on social media, sending your email blasts, asking for support in your business, not putting yourself out there in networking events, not just introducing yourself to people. Or a lot of times women will have this whole business plan, they’ll made a website and they'll have a branding and they'll have this whole formula for what they want to do, and then they just, they never like really put it out there.

And I think once again that goes to that visibility and the worthiness simultaneously. It's like we get held back by this perfectionism and we're not going to be visible and seen unless it's perfect. But the thing is you cannot perfect a business unless you actually start doing the services or selling the products or whatever. Like you're never going to get the feedback that you need to really make it a solid business and that visibility, like you have to take up space, you have to own your awesomeness in order to make people want to work with you.

People do not buy whatever it is that you're selling. I have learned this in multiple industries, like they are signing up to work with you and you have to be visible in order to attract the kind of people you want to work with.

I love that. I'm writing this down, literally, like you have to show up to these meetings, you have to talk to people, you gotta take space, you know, so I love that. So, OK, now, if you can guide us with what can women do or what did you do to be this person today? What steps did you take or how can you guide us on how to now be more seen? And be more visible in the world, even if they're not businesswomen, even if they are just housewives, or they're at home. Like, what are these little steps that they can take?

So one of the things that really helped me get through that transition of soul crushing career to best life Barbie boss babe. I love that. I think was getting really clear on my core values, my truth, the things that really light me up in life, and then radically committing on a daily basis to saying yes to what is aligned and no to what is not.

And what happens when you do that is maybe you're, it's, you need to take baby steps. You're not just gonna throw yourself out there in any situation. Like you have to start to take a commitment and a baby step and I advocate for like a small daily step towards walking through the fire of your fears. And in terms of where this plays out, because it's part honoring your truth, your light, your values, and it's also part walking through the fire of your fears.

For me, what that looked like is I got clear on my core values—time, money, freedom, spirituality and personal development, design and creativity, and then radiance. And so how can I be true to these things? Well, on a daily basis, I put my makeup on, at the very least, and that checks the box of the creativity and design and the radiance factor. And then when it comes to time, money, freedom, I am always at least giving myself some time on a daily basis, even if it's like 3 minutes to really tap into that like receiving mode where I am surrendering, I am releasing, I'm trusting divine guidance. I am not in the driver's seat and I'm just in my body in the moment. At least for a few minutes a day, at the very least.

And that honors the spirituality and personal development and it helps me to once again for that time, money, freedom, like that is time, money, freedom when you're able to give yourself space to just be, like that is freedom, you know. So that all of those things by honoring my truth on a daily basis on a micro scale, then it starts to compound and then I can start to make bigger decisions through the filter of my values and my truth and my authenticity and what lights me up.

So then when it comes to that visibility stuff. It's not so scary because I am starting to nurture myself by like filling my cup with what is true to me. And I just naturally, it just kind of, it becomes effortless, but like one of my biggest limitations was like I was told that you can't be sexy, you can't have tattoos, you can't look like this or carry on like I do and have success professionally. But my truth is this, like this is who I am. So I had to do a lot of work and baby steps to slowly but surely demonstrate to my subconscious that it is safe to be me.

And I mean, I, I know, I had like a nervous breakdown a few years ago 'cause I'm like, why am I called to spirituality? Why am I called to looking like a Barbie and why am I in freaking commercial real estate? Like none of these things add up and then I realized like, with time and integration, all of these things totally make sense. It's who I am, you know, but it takes some time and some practice to teach yourself that it is OK to be you, and then taking up space isn't scary because you're so lit up, you don't even care anymore.

Exactly. You're so lit up, you don't even give a fuck about the world and what the world is thinking, which is so cool. I love that. So basically filter through your core values, you know, so have your core values and then operate your life from there. You you also mention honoring your truth. I'm just saying step by step and then be in receiving mode and take little tiny steps, little tiny steps every single day that you can shine through those core values and then one day hopefully that will help you to become visible.

Yes, and also saying no to things that are not aligned. You have to also commit to that as well. Yeah, that's, that's huge boundaries, absolutely, yes.

Can we talk about now that this woman is listening and she's thinking, OK, I can do this, I can do this, you know, it's pretty, it's, it's tough, but let's talk about money. If this woman does all these steps, and how does this show up with money? Why do so many women with massive potential still, and you talked about this already earlier, they undercharge, they overgive, they stay broke. So they have visibility wounds. We know that.

Yes, yes. I think that's—that it just comes down to like you have to, you experience enough pain to be willing to do something differently. And or be willing to at least acknowledge that, hey, maybe there's something inside of me that is, is responsible for the results that I'm getting in my life.

And so my question is, for women who still feel that they're struggling with money, what can they do? And, and we've already talked about their visibility wounds. So what can they do or what have you done in your past if you can share a story about, hey, here I was struggling, and now all of a sudden I made these shifts and then money started pouring in, you know, and I kept that money. It's not that money poured in and then I lost it all.

Yeah, I mean, I think really, once again it does come back to feeling safety and not doing—like learning that my sense of worthiness and value in this world is not contingent upon how much money I make. My sense of security isn't dependent on money. Money can come and go. Our whole government can collapse, like, you know, like nothing is certain, so learning that, like a sense of security is like a false sense of security, I don't know, like it's—and, and really learning that when I slow down, when I actually listen to my intuition, instead of trying to be in my head, in my ego, forcing hustling, trying to make things work from the logical path.

That's when the breakthroughs come through. That's where the big wins come. So I've learned that like, if I'm starting to feel scarcity come up, I'm not—this isn't a time to work harder and like grind and hustle and all this stuff. This is a time to slow the F down and really listen to what is coming through and sometimes it's gonna be something like an old wound is, is what's in the way of me making money and then it's an opportunity because I've slowed down to then learn from it and start to work through it.

So then, while I'm doing that, some other little miracles will start to happen to demonstrate that like I'm on the right path. This is the next right thing and, and that is like, you know, seeing synchronicity. Sometimes, sometimes I'll have like very vivid dreams that come true that show guidance to me. Like, I mean, spirit speaks to us in so many different ways and I think back to the point of walking through the fire of your fears, I think that when—oftentimes like the opposite to our default approach is the solution.

So, and that goes back to the visibility wounds, like if your default approach has been to shrink and play small, then the solution is to start to do things that are the opposite. And some really micro baby steps that you could start to take to start to show up fully and more authentically—something that I like to tell people to do is just call, call some old friends, like, not somebody that you talk to every day, but like or family members or whoever, somebody who you know, but if you're gonna—just a little uncomfortable, like putting yourself out there to talk to them out of the blue or pick up the phone.

And I know a lot of people, they won't even bother calling, they just want to hide behind like business building by making social media posts because they're not really putting themselves out there and being vulnerable to be turned down. So a way to bridge that gap is to start taking baby steps to be vulnerable and possibly be rejected to demonstrate once again that it's OK. Like you're not gonna die if you have visibility and take up space.

Love that. That is beautiful.

I have two more questions for you, Meghan. So we're almost with time. Who are you becoming now? Tell us about what’s your next steps in your life? What are you excited about? 'Cause I know healing is not like a finish line. It’s like an identity shift. So who are you becoming? What are you, what are you excited to create?

I am so lit up about community. I have, I realized, like I said earlier about creating a real estate firm where it’s greater than the sum of its parts. I am partnered with a really good—a good leader, a good like cheerleader kind of vibe. I’ve got a good manager, a people person on the team. I’ve got a tech person, you know, and so like having that awareness of how lit up it is for me to, to partner with awesome people, to share the wealth, share the excitement, all of that. Like, I had this light bulb moment very recently where I’m like, I am not meant to be a siloed solopreneur.

Like what lights me up is bringing women together to learn and grow and be vulnerable and create safe relationships so that we can really level up and create things that are once again greater than the sum of their parts. So I am in the process of launching a community. It’s called the Soul Called Collective. We do have a Facebook group. You’re welcome to join it, but it is specifically for women who are—who have a soul level calling that has led them to the business they’re in, who are tired of being on the island, who are ready for a holistic approach to success because we are not just therapists, we’re not just healers, we’re not just—I mean, there are people who are soul-led business owners who own a pest control company.

It doesn’t matter what you do, it’s just if your heart is called to do something, I believe it’s tied to your purpose, and I wanna make sure that I create a community where women have all the resources that they need to fulfill their purpose in this world. So, yeah, that’s what lights me up right now.

That’s beautiful. And what would you tell your younger self, if she was sitting right now in front of you, maybe the 5-year-old Meghan, and if she’s like terrified of being judged or terrified of taking up space, what would be some words that you would like to tell her today?

I would tell her that you are so beautiful and so talented and so creative, that the world needs everything that you have to bring and even though it might be scary right now because it doesn’t—that doesn’t align with what you’ve been taught, like you’ve got this queen, like you are here for a reason and, and I am here now as an adult to protect you and keep you safe so you can shine that authentic, beautiful light that you were born to put out there.

Oh, that was so sweet. That’s amazing, Meghan. Where can our listeners find you? And I’m definitely gonna add your information on the show notes.

Awesome. So, my website, Meghanmanifest.com, you can find my social links, you can also access some freebies that I have. I offer an alignment assessment or an alignment audit for free where you can go. Go through and hone in on how aligned with my life, with my daydream, with my business, am I really?

This gives you a quantifiable number so that then you can start to take measures to start to make that number increase and your level of alignment and attraction be able to continue to rise and, if you just go to Meghanmanifest.com/free, you can access that as well.

Cool, I’m definitely gonna add that piece of resource as well on our show notes. Thank you so much, Meghan, for being on our show. I really appreciate you coming out here and teaching us about you, money, and manifestation.

Thank you.

And for all of our listeners, always remember metamorphosis, not medication and namaste.

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