Ep 114: He Cheated. I Stayed. The Truth I Finally Exposed!

There’s betrayal… and then there’s the kind that rewires your entire reality.

In this raw solo episode of The Dimple Bindra Show, I share the story I’ve never fully told out loud: how I found out he cheated, why I stayed even after I knew, and the moment everything in me finally said… I’m done.

This is for every woman who:

Has been love-bombed, idealized, then slowly broken down
 Has felt like the problem while he lied, cheated, gaslit, and played victim
 Has defended “his trauma” while abandoning her own
 Knows something is wrong, but keeps painting red flags white

Inside this episode, I walk you through:

How narcissistic patterns don’t just lie, they create confusion, emotional dependency, and self-doubt
 The “cosmic” beginning: twin-flame fantasies, love bombing, mirroring my light and my pain
 Discovery Day: the phone, the messages, the moment everything shattered and my inner Kali woke up
 Staying after betrayal: cultural pressure, “save your marriage” narratives, and the cost of abandoning yourself
 How my body spoke the truth before I was ready to leave (adenomyosis, pain, inflammation, uterine rage)
 The day he asked for a divorce and why I said, “You got it” with zero hesitation
 The deeper truth: he betrayed me, but I had been betraying myself too

This isn’t a revenge story.
 It’s an awakening.

You’ll hear how I rebuilt my life not by proving anything to him, but by coming back to my breath, my body, my truth — and by letting the old version of me die so a new one could rise from the ashes.

Betrayal disconnects women from themselves. This work brings you home.

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Transcript

0:15: There's betrayal, and then there is the kind that rewires your reality. 
 0:21: Imagine finding out that the man who promised you forever. 
 0:27: He was living another life. 
 0:31: Not an affair A second world built on lies. 
 0:37: You were not his only one, you were part of his performance. 
 0:42: And I'm talking about narcissist here, and that's what narcissists do. 
 0:47: Welcome to another episode of the Dimple Bendra show. 
 0:51: Today, we're gonna talk about the narcissist who played husband to two women until they both found out. 
 1:03: So narcissists, they just don't lie. 
 1:05: They create these illusions for you. 
 1:08: They create the story that you fall under. 
 1:12: You just fall for their trap. 
 1:14: You think everything they're saying is real, because they're charming, right? 
 1:19: They're good looking people, they're attractive. 
 1:22: You fall for the charm, you fall for the love bombing, but they love creating illusions. 
 1:30: And they break it with their words and their actions. 
 1:36: They just study your soul. 
 1:38: They know what you really need and want, and sometimes they mirror your soul. 
 1:46: They actually mirror the darkness in you, and you feel that. 
 1:52: When you meet a narcissist, you feel that at last you've found your savior, at last you have found the love of your life. 
 2:01: So that's why you feel amazing in the first couple of days or months in the relationship. 
 2:09: I usually say that they also mirror your soul, because that's your light, so they actually mirror your light. 
 2:17: So if you are this amazing person, they will act like an amazing person. 
 2:22: If you are actually an honest girl, they will act like they're super honest. 
 2:26: And when that mask falls away, it just breaks your sense of safety. 
 2:34: This is not just my story, it's actually the story of many women who loved a man who never really existed. 
 2:44: And it's sad And today, from this podcast, I'm actually going to speak my story, and I don't know when I'm going to release this, but I'm just going to say it out loud. 
 2:55: Cause I know narcissists will definitely listen to my story, hopefully one day. 
 3:04: When I met him, it felt cosmic. 
 3:08: It felt instant connection. 
 3:09: I even remember I used to say, I think I found my twin flame, and then someone told me, you know, right, if you find your twin flame, twin flame connections are really hard. 
 3:21: I'm like, yeah, and I'm ready to be on this hard journey, even if I need to, because I know if real twin flames meet. 
 3:31: You have to do a lot of work, so it felt like that. 
 3:34: And he mirrored everything, my dreams, my pain, my spirituality. 
 3:41: He said, I remember day 2. 
 3:46: I think I'm in love with you. 
 3:48: That's what he said. 
 3:49: And what does a girl want? 
 3:51: What does a girl from an emotionally Unavailable, abusive, dysfunctional family want. 
 4:01: She wants to hear that she's needed. 
 4:04: She wants to hear that she's loved. 
 4:06: She wants to hear that she's wanted, right? 
 4:10: So what did I do? 
 4:11: I fell for that freaking truck. 
 4:16: And I'm recording this because I don't want you to fall for this trap, because there are millions of women out there that fell for this. 
 4:29: And they're doing the work after they came out of this, and I hope my intention is that you see these clear signs, if it's happening to you right now. 
 4:41: OK. 
 4:43: So what did I do? 
 4:43: Like I said, I I heard him when he said, I feel like I'm in love with you, or it's only been two days and I feel so good about you. 
 4:55: And I believed him, and that's how it begins, right? 
 4:59: Narcissists don't fall in love, they recruit, they recruit the right person to fall in love with, right? 
 5:07: And they don't fall in love with one person at one time. 
 5:11: They fall in multiple relationships at the same time and you won't even know it. 
 5:17: They learn your light so they can control it. 
 5:21: And they listen to your pain so that they can use it afterwards, they can use it against you. 
 5:26: At first, it is perfect, and then slowly things shift. 
 5:33: A small lie here, a disappearing act there, an apology that does not even feel real, it just feels, I'm sorry, done. 
 5:43: And they don't apologize until you ask them for it, so it's not that I got the apology. 
 5:49: When I asked for an apology, then I got an apology, so I was a little in my dynamic. 
 5:54: I was a little different. 
 5:55: I was very outspoken. 
 5:56: , I would say later on in the relationship, after I found out about this person cheating on me, it's I got married in 2021, let's just give some details out here. 
 6:08: So from 2021 all the way till 2023, 2023 is when I found out that my man cheated on me. 
 6:15: And that's when I was just trying to end the relationship. 
 6:18: I wanted to end it. 
 6:19: I'm like, nope, no more. 
 6:20: So until 2023, I was playing therapist, I was playing the mother, I was playing the cook, I was playing the cleaner, I was playing the fixer. 
 6:35: I was pretty much playing everything, oh yeah, and I was playing the accountant, oh, and I was the banker, the financer of this person. 
 6:45: In 2023, when I found out that someone violated our wedding vows. 
 6:53: I turned Kali. 
 6:55: If you don't know what Kali is, she is the destructive goddess. 
 7:00: She is the goddess that destructs everything. 
 7:04: She is the goddess that is the rebel. 
 7:07: She is the goddess that protects you. 
 7:09: She is the goddess that will not ever take bullshit from anybody. 
 7:15: She does not take disrespect from anyone. 
 7:18: But If Kali is not the energy or the archetype that you're honing in right now, you're gonna be a woman who's going to keep quiet to keep the peace. 
 7:27: You're not going to speak up, you will stay low, you don't want to be seen, you don't want to be heard, so you're like the opposite. 
 7:35: Of Kali, maybe going through trauma, maybe going through suffering at the moment, but when Kali shows up in a woman's life, that woman cannot tolerate cheating, lies, manipulation, because all of a sudden everything inside of her just awakens, right? 
 7:53: And that's what happened to me. 
 7:54: And oh yeah, and she exposes truth. 
 7:57: She's gonna expose the truth in broad daylight. 
 8:01: So, I remember this day because he was supposed to travel to New York. 
 8:07: And he was supposed to go meet my family, and because he was an artist, and he wanted to record music with my brother. 
 8:16: So that day I was meditating and something didn't feel right, something just did not feel right, and I was trying to do some ticket changes or something. 
 8:26: I was supposed to like change his ticket or change his seat. 
 8:28: I don't remember. 
 8:28: All I know is my phone was busy, and I wanted his, oh yeah, this happened later. 
 8:32: OK, so let me rewind maybe 2 hours, oh no, I should say 1 hour. 
 8:37: Something told me, get his phone. 
 8:40: And then only word that came up was Snapchat. 
 8:44: That's the only word that came up. 
 8:45: I'm like, get his phone, Snapchat, what does that mean? 
 8:48: And I know he never had Snapchat. 
 8:51: I know he had Facebook, I know he had Instagram. 
 8:53: So, and I, I, I remember even during our conversations, I would say, do you have Snapchat? 
 8:58: He's like, no, I don't have Snapchat. 
 8:59: OK, so that was the truth that I thought. 
 9:03: But when I got his phone, and something told me something is not right, and he's getting ready to pick, you know, to take the flight, and I get, I take his phone because I'm like talking on, on the other phone with to the airlines, and I take his phone and I run away. 
 9:19: I literally run away from the house and I run away to like the back part of my apartment. 
 9:28: And I checked his phone and I don't check Snapchat yet. 
 9:33: I don't have the time, but the first thing I check is I go on Facebook, and I check these messages of women, then I go on Instagram and I check these messages of women, and I'm like, whoa, dude, and I'm here. 
 9:46: Thinking I'm with a loyal man who loves me, who is in in this forever, but it was, this is what I'm seeing in my reality, right? 
 9:55: So like my, so I just, I just got so shaken by it. 
 9:59: , And guess what I see? 
 10:03: He's running behind me to get his phone. 
 10:08: So if you are a genuine person who's not cheating, you wouldn't care about your phone. 
 10:12: Your phone is gonna be out there, but if you're a fucking cheater, that's what you're gonna do. 
 10:17: You're gonna run after your phone, he ran after me, he's like, what are you doing with my phone? 
 10:21: I'm like, I'm exposing you. 
 10:24: That's it. 
 10:25: And from that day onwards, the way I treated this man was like he was a nobody in my life. 
 10:31: Yeah, it took me almost 2 years to get out of it, right? 
 10:35: But I did. 
 10:36: And I am getting out of it, at least I should say, physically I'm out of it, but mentally, spiritually, energetically, I am doing the work. 
 10:45: But why am I sharing this story with you? 
 10:48: I'm sharing because you need to understand that this, when they lie and cheat and manipulate, and then the reality shows you the truth, you better trust the truth. 
 11:03: You better trust what the reality is trying to tell you. 
 11:08: And I know that a lot of times we just start doubting ourselves, sorry, we start doubting ourselves, right? 
 11:16: I doubted myself too. 
 11:17: I'm like, what did I do wrong? 
 11:18: And this is where women go wrong. 
 11:21: When a man cheated, cheats on a woman, it's nothing to do with the woman. 
 11:24: This is what science confirms, and there are so many researchers who have actually researched on talking to men who have cheated on other women. 
 11:34: And research confirms that the man never cheats on the woman because the woman was the problem. 
 11:41: The man cheats on the woman because he is the problem. 
 11:44: He is seeking something from. 
 11:48: Outside that he thinks that he thinks that, oh, his, his woman can't give him, but that's not true. 
 11:57: When the man cheats on you, it's because something inside of him is missing. 
 12:01: He is actually cheating himself out of it. 
 12:05: So you start doubting yourself, you start apologizing for asking questions. 
 12:09: This is who I was, you know, since 2021 to 2023, those two years. 
 12:14: I started believing like I was a problem, and guess what? 
 12:19: That's basically manipulation because that's what they tell you, and you believe them. 
 12:23: You believe them, why? 
 12:24: A, he's your husband maybe or your partner, 2, you are in proximity with them, so you're listening to them more than anyone else, like your family members, you know, so your ears are listening to them. 
 12:36: And then sometimes when you already have childhood trauma and insecurities that are unhealed, those things go into your head. 
 12:43: But I knew in 2023, nope, I'm not the problem, you are the fucking problem. 
 12:49: I knew enough of that because I had read books, I had taken classes, I was helping other women come out of it, and this is something that happened to me. 
 12:58: So it was like a fucking shock. 
 13:00: I'm like, great God. 
 13:02: Or the goddess, I am helping women who are betrayed, and this betrayal happens with me, tells me that I'm supposed to go through this betrayal to help more women because now it's a lived experience, you know, versus I was helping other women who, who got cheated on, but then that was the stuff in the past. 
 13:21: I did not know this was happening to me currently, so I had something, it had to do something within me that I had to heal. 
 13:29: So their manipulation is just quiet. 
 13:33: It's the invisible manipulation. 
 13:36: It makes you just mistrust your own intuition. 
 13:41: Do you, do you feel me? 
 13:43: Like you feel like, am I the wrong one? 
 13:45: Am I the wrong one? 
 13:46: And sometimes you think it is, but you're not. 
 13:50: You are not the woman who is the wrong one here. 
 13:57: For a long time I defended this fucking guy. 
 14:01: I said, oh, it must be his trauma, cos you know, I was a coach, so I give benefit of doubt to people. 
 14:09: I have clients that have committed horrendous crimes. 
 14:14: And I still give them a benefit of doubt. 
 14:17: I have worked in jails, right, where I would actually in prison, actually teaching yoga. 
 14:23: So I understand the psychology of people, they do the crime just because something happened, but doesn't mean they cannot change. 
 14:30: So because that's my mentality, I should call it the monk mentality. 
 14:34: I feel every person can change. 
 14:36: If a person is going through something, they probably made a mistake, but they have the potential to change. 
 14:42: So I believed in that potential. 
 14:45: I said sometimes, oh, he's under pressure. 
 14:48: Oh, he came from India, this is a new country for him. 
 14:51: I would say things like, he loves me, he's just stressed, or I would say things like, oh yeah, his stories were all about that his ex cheated on him. 
 15:04: So I would say things like, oh man, poor guy, his ex cheated on him, so he just does not know what love really is, what real love is. 
 15:14: Because, you know what, in the end, love is such an emotion, it actually makes you blind. 
 15:20: No wonder we say love makes you blind. 
 15:23: It's, it's a real emotion, it has a very high vibe frequency. 
 15:28: So people like us, we love unconditionally. 
 15:32: And we give other people benefit of doubt, especially coming from my background, so that's what I thought. 
 15:38: But trauma can sometimes make you loyal to your own pain. 
 15:42: Think about that. 
 15:43: The red flags were there, but I kept on painting them white. 
 15:49: I did not paint them red. 
 15:51: Does that make sense? 
 15:52: And like I said, then one day the illusion just broke. 
 15:57: It was not loud, it was like the silence that said everything, and I remember I immediately called my mom and I said, Mom, I just found out he has, you know, he's talking to so many girls, cause I just did not know how to act, so that was my way of really, Feeling the discovery day of his betrayal. 
 16:23: And even though there were little betrayals here and there that were happening, I did not make it a big deal because he would always cover it up. 
 16:30: But when this happened, then everything else made sense. 
 16:33: So the lies just stopped fitting, and the truth just came out, right? 
 16:39: And I finally saw who he really was, in that moment. 
 16:44: Just changed me forever. 
 16:47: Because I was not just losing him. 
 16:50: I feel like I was losing the version of myself that believed in him. 
 16:56: So that is the cruelty of narcissistic abuse. 
 17:02: It just steals away your peace, and then it steals your identity. 
 17:08: For months I couldn't breathe. 
 17:10: I was like, what the fuck just happened? 
 17:15: Cause you just don't know if it's you or if it's them, even though I know a lot scientifically, and I know when it comes to somebody else, but then when that same thing happens to you, you question everything. 
 17:30: And I was grieving a person who never existed. 
 17:34: And I was grieving. 
 17:36: The old meat that fell for this trap. 
 17:42: I kept on searching for closure, but closure does not come when someone has no conscience. 
 17:50: Then one morning, something inside me whispered, you know what, this is not your ending, it's actually your awakening. 
 17:57: And I realized that day that no more am I gonna listen to any of his bullshit, no more am I gonna keep quiet and keep the peace. 
 18:08: I'm gonna live my life my way. 
 18:12: I'm gonna eat whatever I want, which I used to do anyway, but some nights, for example, if I have to cook for this man, I'm like, fuck you, man, I'm not cooking for you. 
 18:20: I'm out. 
 18:22: I need to go on self dates, I would go on self dates. 
 18:25: In the evening, I would not even say where I'm going. 
 18:27: I would just say, figure out your dinner, I'm out. 
 18:31: This is what I would do. 
 18:32: This is how you need to treat a person who actually cheats on you, and, And I stayed in the relationship for multiple reasons. 
 18:41: I tried to make it work. 
 18:45: That was my biggest mistake, because I again got influenced by my family. 
 18:53: And this happens a lot, especially in the Asian culture. 
 18:57: They want to keep you together. 
 18:59: They want to keep the husband and the wife together despite when the husband is a fucking cheater. 
 19:04: They think the girl needs to dim her light, they think the girl should make it work. 
 19:10: They think it's OK, men do this, so it's all these bullshit narratives. 
 19:16: I literally believed again, after him cheating on me. 
 19:22: All right, there come 2024. 
 19:25: He started playing victim. 
 19:26: He started saying that I'm abusing him, because narcissists don't understand this. 
 19:33: When we react to a narcissistic behavior and we call them out, they don't like it. 
 19:38: They will start victimizing themselves, cause you are reacting to their action of what they did, and your reaction is something that they don't like. 
 19:49: So if you call out a narcissist, he fucking hates you. 
 19:53: And that's what I would do. 
 19:54: I would call him out again and again and again and again, and he would say, oh my God, you're abusing me. 
 20:02: Yeah, what have you done? 
 20:04: Is, is what I would say. 
 20:07: So When I felt. 
 20:11: That this is actually my awakening. 
 20:14: Despite the fact that this guy betrayed me, it's fine. 
 20:17: Now I can live my life. 
 20:19: We can still live together, but there will be no relationship between us. 
 20:22: So technically, I think in my head I mentally checked out. 
 20:27: Now that I think about it, I had mentally checked out, and you know, when a woman mentally checks out, she's done. 
 20:33: She's fucking done. 
 20:34: She's just finding the next way to leave and to exit the relationship. 
 20:38: So I was done and I consulted a few. 
 20:42: People that gave advice on making it work. 
 20:46: He showed some changes to make it work. 
 20:53: And I just started breathing again, you know, but I will, this time it was not the person who was trying to control the other person, it was not the person who wants to make things work. 
 21:04: I was focusing on me, even though I was in a relationship, in a marriage with another person. 
 21:10: And I was, I would just do deep, conscious, honest breaths. 
 21:15: I just began moving again. 
 21:17: I began crying. 
 21:18: I began releasing and coming back home to my body. 
 21:22: In 2024, I got diagnosed with adenomyosis, a condition of the uterus. 
 21:28: I'm like, there you go, this was what betrayed women feel. 
 21:33: They hold up so much anger and emotions that the uterus starts swelling up, and my doctor tells me, my gynecologist tells me, you have to get a hysterectomy. 
 21:45: I'm like, nope, I'm not doing that. 
 21:48: I'll come back in two years and I'll show you proof that I can heal. 
 21:51: So I knew right there and then, this guy is not good for me. 
 21:56: Not at all. 
 21:57: I have to figure it out. 
 21:58: I have to figure out how to end this, and a part of me. 
 22:05: I feel right now, because this is who I am. 
 22:08: If I love you, I love you with all my heart and with all my heart and soul, no matter who you are. 
 22:13: So part of me loved this person. 
 22:16: But you know what? 
 22:17: Love does not have to be painful. 
 22:20: So I also knew that I need to heal my body and healing is not about revenge. 
 22:28: It's about returning to yourself after living in someone else's lie, right? 
 22:36: You have to choose you, you have to heal. 
 22:39: All right, now we passed the whole year. 
 22:42: I, I was just healing my body. 
 22:43: I was in so much pain. 
 22:46: After my period, I would feel so much pain in my lower belly. 
 22:49: It was like a 20 out of 20 pain. 
 22:52: And I'm like, damn, when is this going to end? 
 22:54: When is this gonna end? 
 22:54: You know, because you're going through pain, and I'm like, the only thing that can heal me is yoga, meditation, breathing, journaling, whatever I know, I'm just going to try everything on myself and I'm just going to do it. 
 23:05: And I did it. 
 23:07: 2025, in May, I separated from this person because the moment he got his US passport, he tells me he wants a divorce. 
 23:15: And guess what I did this time? 
 23:19: I know when a narcissist. 
 23:22: Is playing a game. 
 23:24: And I'm like, you got it. 
 23:26: That's all I said. 
 23:29: When he said he wants a divorce, I said, you got it. 
 23:32: I printed all my documents. 
 23:34: I did my own divorce case. 
 23:36: I'm like, you got it, dude. 
 23:38: It was a blessing for me. 
 23:40: A part of me knew this is the right thing to do. 
 23:44: But the outer dimple, our mind is like, what the fuck just happened? 
 23:48: Oh my God, you know, that's the mind talking bullshit, the ego talking bullshit, the ego putting fear in your head. 
 23:55: The ego is thinking about the all, all the things you just did, and you, you, you, and what did you get back in return? 
 24:03: But the soul, my soul, my spirit knew this is the right thing to do. 
 24:07: It was a blessing in disguise. 
 24:10: And weeks later, I walked out, moved out to a beautiful place. 
 24:15: So I wanna tell you that you can't out love a narcissist. 
 24:20: You can't fix. 
 24:23: What was never real. 
 24:26: You can save someone who just enjoys watching you break. 
 24:32: And the only way out is inward, back to your body, back to your truth. 
 24:40: That's where I found peace. 
 24:42: When I moved to this new place and I would take time to cry for hours and hours and hours, because I know every heartbreak, every betrayal. 
 24:55: It, it feels like death. 
 24:57: You know why? 
 24:58: You know who's dying or who's dead? 
 25:01: The older version of you. 
 25:03: The older version of you is dying, so you have to grieve. 
 25:08: There's nothing wrong in crying, and I would just watch a comedy movie and I would start crying, or I would watch a love story and I would start crying. 
 25:16: I did not give up on love. 
 25:18: I knew real love is out there, and I still don't give up on love. 
 25:22: I would, even after a betrayal and a heartbreak, most women go under the cycle of, I'm never gonna be in a relationship again. 
 25:29: Yeah, I said that, but then guess what? 
 25:31: I'm watching love stories every day. 
 25:33: I'm watching love stories whenever I get a chance, I like to watch movies and they would be love stories because I knew, I knew what real love could be. 
 25:43: I knew, but I, and I also found out, man, that was not love. 
 25:47: This guy just married me for a passport. 
 25:50: OK, no worries, karma is a bitch, and it's gonna come back and bite you in your ass. 
 25:57: And you know who, whose message this is for, right? 
 26:02: So if you're doing something wrong, you better know something wrong or, or I should say wrong to. 
 26:11: Multiplied by 100,000 times is gonna come back at you. 
 26:17: So we were talking about the only way out is you gotta go back into yourself, right? 
 26:25: That's where I found my peace, and not from proving anything to anybody, but just from letting go, letting go of the illusion I was in, letting go of the person I got married to, letting go of everything I thought he was, letting go of the forevers, you know, and the story, the story, especially the manipulative violence, all the violence and the lies and the cheating, just letting go of that story. 
 26:54: And not having any emotional reaction to it right now. 
 26:57: Like I can openly talk about all the crazy things he did and not have any emotional reaction to it, because I'm not storing it in my body, I'm releasing it every day, I'm doing that. 
 27:10: Cause you know what? 
 27:12: When you are in peace. 
 27:15: Peace is not boring, you know, it's freedom. 
 27:18: It's the freedom to choose whomever you want to be in real time, and that's what I wanted to choose. 
 27:24: And that's what I know when you're listening to this podcast, you can also choose that for yourself. 
 27:29: So if you have been gaslighted or manipulated, or been cheated on, or betrayed, you are not crazy. 
 27:39: You are not weak. 
 27:41: You are just awakening, because when that fucking person betrays you. 
 27:48: Something will happen inside of you that's gonna shake things up and you'll be like, oh my God, how did this happen? 
 27:54: And that shakiness is gonna tell you, girl, wake the fuck up. 
 27:59: Wake up. 
 28:00: You are powerful than you think. 
 28:02: You do not have to act weak, be weak. 
 28:06: You can now live life your way and ask yourself, did I really betray myself in this relationship while this person was betraying me? 
 28:15: And the answer usually is always yes. 
 28:18: I had also betrayed myself in this relationship. 
 28:21: Therefore, hello, you betray yourself, someone betrays you. 
 28:26: That's it. 
 28:27: So the end of my story is, I found out I betrayed myself, and therefore he betrayed me. 
 28:37: It's not about he betrayed me and I'm gonna go out out there and I'm gonna take revenge. 
 28:43: No, I'm gonna bring it back to me because no one has power. 
 28:47: Over your betrayal, you need to take that responsibility of the betrayal and say, I must have done something wrong with myself, that this betrayal happened, and typically all of us betray ourselves in in many ways, right? 
 29:03: And we'll have a different podcast for that, so do check that out. 
 29:06: So please remember your power, please come back to life, because you are coming back to your life. 
 29:13: And that's why I created the awakening class. 
 29:16: It's a free space for women. 
 29:19: Who want to release, who wanna breathe, who wanna move, who wanna yoga together, who wanna meditate, and just be themselves again. 
 29:29: Every week we gather. 
 29:32: In sisterhood and safety, we don't allow men in our class, we move through our numbness, because, you know, when you go through betrayal and trauma, your neck is tight, your back is tight, you get chronic inflammation, you have all these crazy diseases coming up, all of a sudden in your body and like, how did this happen? 
 29:49: You can't sleep, you get anxiety, hives, like I know so many symptoms because so many of my clients have had weird symptoms, including me. 
 30:00: So I know when you move and you breathe and you shake your body, you can release the trauma that's stored in your body, no matter how many years you were with or you are with the betrayer. 
 30:16: We rise together and I would love for you to show up to class. 
 30:20: It's free. 
 30:22: And if this story speaks to you, then join me every Monday. 
 30:26: Bring your breath, bring your heart, bring your body. 
 30:32: You don't have to heal alone and that's why when we heal together, we feel together. 
 30:42: That just happened right now. 
 30:44: Healing doesn't start when the past ends, OK? 
 30:47: Doesn't healing doesn't start there. 
 30:49: It starts when you decide that it no longer defines you. 
 30:53: I'm Dimplevindra, and this is the Dimplevindra show for every woman who has loved deeply. 
 31:01: Lost herself and risen again from ashes. 
 31:04: Oh, rising from the ashes, yes, the space is for you. 
 31:08: I want you to come, check us out. 
 31:10: I'm gonna put the free awakening class link on our show notes or you can just go on to dimplebinra.com and you will see it right there. 
 31:19: Register, you'll get the Zoom link, show up to class. 
 31:22: We're doing it for different time zones, and that's one class, and I'm sure you will love it. 
 31:27: So please come check us out. 
 31:29: See you in the next podcast. 
 31:32: Namaste. 
 31:33: If this episode spoke to you, then please give us a review on iTunes. 
 31:37: I will really appreciate it. 
 31:39: And if you felt something. 
 31:41: Shift in your chest or your gut, that's not just a podcast moment. 
 31:45: That's your soul saying, Hey, we are ready. 
 31:49: So head over to dimplebinra.com and take my healing archetype quiz. 
 31:54: I'm also going to add the link to my show notes. 
 31:57: It's going to help you understand the pattern that's been running your life. 
 32:02: The one you didn't even know was there. 
 32:06: And once you take the quiz, you'll see a button to join the waitlist for you are awakening. 
 32:12: That's my Women's circle, and it's where we do this work together with other amazing sisters. 
 32:19: You don't have to heal in silence anymore. 
 32:23: I'm so glad you're here, and I'll see you in the next episode. 
 32:27: Bye.