Behind the Paddle
Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions.
Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 8yrs) on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry.
She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through any
socials.
Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.com
Our socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle
Episodes
97 episodes
E97: How to be you Part 8
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence.<...
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Episode 97
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53:44
E96:The Rage Before the Storm: Living with PMDD
In The Rage Before the Storm: Living with PMDD, Porcelain Victoria delves into the raw, cyclical reality of Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder a condition that turns the body’s natural rhythm into emotional warfare. Blending medical insig...
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Episode 96
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30:50
E95:How to be you part 7
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence.<...
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Episode 95
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54:07
E94: Collars and Creatures: Inside the World of Petplay
What happens when humans shed language, drop to all fours, and find freedom in a collar? In this deep-dive Petplay episode of Behind the Paddle, host Porcelain Victoria explores the culture, psychology, and practicalities of pet/h...
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Episode 94
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45:44
E93:How to be you part 6
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence.<...
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Episode 93
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53:29
E92: The Nordic Model vs. Decriminalization
Behindthepaddle podcast takes listeners inside one of the most polarizing debates in feminist and political history: the Nordic Model versus decriminalisation of sex work. With personal testimony, global case studies, and voices from sex-...
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Episode 92
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38:20
E91:How to be you part 5
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence.<...
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Episode 91
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1:01:06
E90:Burgers and Ballgags: Inside Munches and Play Parties in the BDSM World
From diner booths to dungeon floors, “Burgers and Ballgags: Inside Munches and Play Parties in the BDSM World” explores the social and sexual spaces where kink comes alive. Porcelain Victoria guides you through the history, the p...
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Episode 90
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51:16
E89: Secrets in the Sheets: Husbands, Fetishes, and the Cost of Silence
Welcome to Behindthepaddle. I’m Porcelain Victoria, and this episode… is a tender one.Today, we’re stepping into the bedroom but not just for fun. We’re pulling open the drawer of secrets. Hidden fetishes. Quiet urges. And thos...
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Episode 89
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42:07
E88: How to be you part 4
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence.<...
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Episode 88
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53:58
E87:Crayons, Contracts, and Care: Inside the World of DDLG and Caregiver/Little Dynamics
Behindthepaddle Podcast invites you inside one of the most tender, misunderstood, and intimate corners of the BDSM world: Caregiver/little dynamics.We explore the acronyms (DDLG, CGL, MDLB, Littles, Middles, Brats), the <...
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Episode 87
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51:44
E86: How to be you part 3
What if everything you've been taught about being "normal" is actually rooted in systems of oppression? Welcome to a thought-provoking journey through the hidden forces that shape our understanding of executive functioning and neurodivergence.<...
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Episode 86
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22:07
E85:Kink vs Fetish
In this episode, I dive into one of the questions I hear all the time: what’s the difference between a kink and a fetish? These two words get thrown around a lot, but they aren’t the same thing and understanding the difference can change how we...
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Episode 85
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41:57
E84:How to be you part 2
Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when one side thrives on patterns while another demands constant ...
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Episode 84
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48:30
E83: Beyond The Dungeon: Exploring SSC, RACK & PRICK in BDSM
Welcome to Behind the Paddle podcast. Today we are speaking about BDSM not as a hobby, not as a kink to be giggled at behind closed doors, and not as a fleeting curiosity but as a world. A world of power, of discipline, of trust. A world of ...
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Episode 83
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1:09:31
E82:How to be you part 1
Hello welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast, what happens when your brain constantly pulls you in opposite directions? When one part craves structure while another needs novelty, or when one side thrives on patterns while another demands constant ...
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Episode 82
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37:34
E81: How It all began- How i become a whoreified deviant
Hello and welcome back to Behind the paddle podcast in todays episode I share my deeply personal journey into sex work, from discovering sexuality through late-night TV at 12 to performing webcam shows as a teen and entering in-person work at 1...
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Episode 81
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58:25
E80:Revolting Prostitutes p22 Finale
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 215-221 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
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Episode 80
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28:21
E79: I was Charged with Brothel Keeping part 2 Brothel keeping laws
In this raw and urgent episode of Behindthepaddle, host Porcelain Victoria breaks her silence after being charged under Scotland’s archaic brothel-keeping laws—laws that criminalize sex workers for simply trying to work together in safety.<...
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Episode 79
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37:47
E78:Revolting Prostitutes p21
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 204-215 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
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Episode 78
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42:06
E77: I was charged with Brothel Keeping Part 1 My Story
One knock on the door changed everything. Twenty police officers with a battering ram stood ready to break down my door – all because I, a dominatrix, had created a safe workspace with security measures and safety equipment.Safety shoul...
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Episode 77
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1:16:00
E76: Tethered Hearts: The Sacred Art of Aftercare in BDSM
Welcome to Behindthepaddle podcast with me, Porcelain Victoria. In this deeply personal and richly detailed episode, we unravel the sacred, often overlooked practice of aftercare in BDSM. Beyond cuddles and comfort, aftercare is a ne...
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Episode 76
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51:22
E75:Revolting Prostitutes p20
Join Porcelain Victoria in this episode of Behind the Paddle Podcast as she reads and discusses pages 193-203 of Revolting Prostitutes, a groundbreaking work that challenges societal views on sex work. Delve into the critical ...
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Episode 75
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40:03
E74: Rope Bondage with Miss Fay Morgan Part 2
Welcome to BehindthePaddle Podcast in today’s episode we will be speaking to the amazing Miss Fay Morgan. Rope bondage transcends the physical act of tying knots, creating a profound psychological landscape where vulnerability, surr...
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Episode 74
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1:12:56