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How to Stop Pushing Through Midlife Burnout

Susan Kricun Season 2 Episode 25

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Why trying harder isn’t helping and backing off isn’t giving up.

In this episode of Love From the Inside Out, Susan explores midlife burnout, the addiction to effort, and why pushing through, doing more, and overriding your body can stop working at a certain point in life.

For many women in midlife, effort has been the thing that worked. It helped us build careers, care for others, move through hard seasons, stay responsible, and become the people others could count on. But sometimes effort turns into force. And when that happens, trying harder may not bring more clarity, energy, peace, or self-trust. It may just make our bodies and minds louder.

Susan shares a recent Peloton moment that helped her understand this pattern in a new way. Instead of forcing a harder workout, she stayed in Zone 2, backed off, and gave her body what it actually needed. The surprising part wasn’t just that she felt better afterward. It was how hard it was to let the gentler ride be enough.

This conversation is about learning to listen to your body, notice when effort has become force, take smaller steps, and reconnect with the inner wisdom that often gets buried under pressure, striving, overthinking, and burnout.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or like your body is asking for something different than it used to, this episode is a reminder that doing less by even ten percent may be one of the most powerful ways to come back to yourself.

In this episode:

  • Why trying harder can stop helping in midlife
  • The difference between effort and force
  • How burnout can be connected to proving, striving, and over-functioning
  • Why your body may get louder when you keep overriding it
  • The difference between listening to your body and monitoring it
  • Why backing off by ten percent can feel harder than pushing through
  • How small steps can help you keep moving without shutting down
  • What daily meditation has taught Susan about self-trust and inner wisdom
  • Why slowing down can create more creativity, clarity, energy, and aliveness

Mentioned in this episode:

  • Zone 2 Peloton rides
  • The “less is more” lesson from journalism school
  • The mantra “let go and let it flow”
  • The one-step-at-a-time / elephant analogy

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