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How to Choose Better Men: Spotting the Signs of Emotional Unavailability

Rachel Monica Season 1 Episode 13

In today’s episode, "How to Choose Better Men: Spotting the Signs of Emotional Unavailability," I’m diving deep into one of the most important shifts in my healing journey: learning how to date with intention - not from fear, wounding, or scarcity, but from self-worth, clarity, and truth.

For a long time, I found myself in patterns with emotionally unavailable men. Men who couldn’t hold space for the feminine… because they hadn’t made peace with it within themselves. But what changed everything was realizing: I was the one choosing them.

This episode is a powerful reflection on what to actually look for in a man not just red flags, but emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and alignment. We explore the archetype of the emotionally unavailable man, how his unhealed wounds show up in dating, and how to spot the signs early.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in repeating the same cycles with men, or you’re calling in a partner who can truly meet you, this one’s for you. We talk emotional availability, masculine/feminine balance, and what it looks like to set standards from a healed place.

It’s time to stop settling, stop abandoning yourself, and start choosing partners who reflect the version of you that knows exactly what she deserves.


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