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It's Always Been You.
Welcome to It’s Always Been You, a space for exploring love, relationships, consciousness, manifestation, and healing.
I’m Rachel Monica, and this podcast is about understanding the relationship you have with yourself and how it shapes the love you experience, the life you create, and the woman you become.
Through personal stories, honest conversations, spiritual perspectives, and powerful mindset shifts, we’ll explore what it means to heal your past, change the beliefs that shape your reality, choose yourself, create deeply fulfilling relationships, and consciously become the woman who can receive the life she desires.
Because the love you’re looking for, the life you’re manifesting, and the version of yourself you’re becoming aren’t found somewhere outside of you.
It’s always been you.
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It's Always Been You.
3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People
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In today’s episode, “3 Things That Will Save You Years of Dating the Wrong People,” I’m breaking down the three biggest shifts that completely changed the way I approached dating, relationships, and finding a partner who was actually aligned with the life I wanted to create.
Because dating is not about getting chosen.
It’s not about convincing someone to like you.
And it’s definitely not about trying to force every connection into becoming your future husband.
Dating is information.
Dating is clarity.
Dating is one of the fastest ways to learn what you truly want, what you no longer want, and who you are becoming.
We’re diving into the mindset shift that takes dating from something exhausting, discouraging, and emotionally draining... into something empowering, intentional, and even enjoyable.
I share my own experiences navigating dating, the mistakes I made, what eventually changed, and the lessons that helped me attract a relationship that feels healthier, more aligned, and more secure than anything I had experienced before.
We talk about:
✨ The real purpose of dating (and why most people approach it backwards)
✨ Why dating should be about gathering data, not securing a relationship
✨ How expectations create unnecessary disappointment
✨ The difference between being open to possibilities and attached to outcomes
✨ Why the quality of your relationship with yourself determines what you'll tolerate from others
✨ How self-worth creates standards, boundaries, and discernment
✨ Why healthy dating starts long before you meet the right person
✨ How experience helps you get clear on what you truly desire in a partner
✨ Why every relationship, date, and connection is serving you in some way
✨ How to stop dating to be chosen and start dating from a place of choice
💗 Want to create the healthy, secure love you’ve always desired?
Book a 1:1 Love Audit with me and we’ll uncover exactly what’s keeping you from experiencing the relationship you want and identify the shifts you need to make to start choosing, receiving, and creating love differently.
Let's connect:
💗 Email: campolongorachel@gmail.com
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