A Grown Up's Gap Year
How to Runaway, Seek Joy, & other Handy Mid Life Hints.
Episodes
28 episodes
Ask Why Not You: How Values Become Your North Star
Hello and Happy New Year. During January, I'm replaying four of our most downloaded, most messaged about episodes. Think of them as a short series to ease you into the year and ask, what about me and what about right now? So we're going right b...
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Season 2
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Episode 12
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20:54
Emptier Nest And Everyday Resets That Work: with Prue Francis
Hello and Happy New Year. During January, I'm replaying four of our most downloaded, most messaged about episodes. Think of them as a short series to ease you into the year and ask, what about me and what about right now? So we're going right b...
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Season 2
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Episode 11
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35:09
Why More Women Over 50 Are Travelling Solo: And Loving It
Hello and Happy New Year. During January, I'm replaying four of our most downloaded, most messaged about episodes. Think of them as a short series to ease you into the year and ask, what about me and what about right now? So we're going right b...
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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33:33
Treat Yourself Like a Project: How Small Actions Lead to Big Clarity
Hello and Happy New Year. During January, I'm replaying four of our most downloaded, most messaged about episodes. Think of them as a short series to ease you into the year and ask, what about me and what about right now? So we're going right b...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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25:40
A Grown Up’s Gap Year, From “I Can’t” to “Of Course I Can": My Year of Choosing Yes
If you’ve ever looked around your life and thought, “Is this it?” while simultaneously being needed by everyone, this one’s for you.In the final episode of Season Two, author and nutritionist Monique van Tulder looks at what actually hap...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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37:50
Ditch the “New Year, New You” Resolutions: Pick Up a Notebook, Not a 75-Day Challenge
If “New Year, New You” makes you want to throw your phone in the sea, this one’s for you. In this episode, Monique van Tulder – author of A Grown Up’s Gap Year – calls time on the standard New Year resolutions and 75-day “transformation” challe...
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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10:31
Mid-Life Maintenance Mojo: Just Wear the Bikini & Other Handy Hints
In this episode of A Grown Up’s Gap Year – The Podcast, Monique unpacks mid-life maintenance mojo – from mammograms and strength training to swimsuits, perimenopause, and why you should just wear the bikini (if you want to).You’ll hear:&...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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16:31
Happyish Holidays: Festive Season Boundaries & What Feels Like Home
Design a festive season that actually fits: clear, kind boundaries and small rituals that help you feel at home when “utterly joyful” feels like a stretch. In this short episode of A Grown Up’s Gap Year – The Podcast, we explore Happyish Holida...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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20:52
Dreaming of Your Own Greek Island House? A Chic Local Shares Her Mid-Life Reset on Hydra
Ever caught yourself scrolling Greek property listings, wondering what it would be like to trade your commute for cobblestones, donkeys and Aegean light? In this episode of A Grown Up’s Gap Year – The Podcast, I sit down with award-winning arti...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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46:08
Mid-life Mental Load and Guilt: Your SPACE Prescription for Better Boundaries
If you’re a mid-life woman who’s somehow ended up at the top of everyone else’s “people we need” pyramid and the bottom of your own, this one’s for you. In this episode, Monique talks about what happens when you finally admit you’re exhausted –...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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28:19
Streamline Your Lifestyle: Declutter, Create SPACE, and Feel Better Now
Feeling better starts with space — physical first, mental next. In this candid, useful episode, Monique reads from her book, A Grown Up's Gap Year, on the beauty of simplicity, then gets real about the sandwich-generation juggle: a kitchen-tabl...
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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16:07
Your Two Minute Travel Prescription Reset: Find Space in Mid-life
Feeling stretched thin and a little invisible? This episode gives you a simple, two-minute Travel Prescription Certificate to start reclaiming space—without dismantling your life. We talk the hot coffee moment (after decades of lukewarm), why s...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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23:49
Reinvention With Monique van Tulder and Michelle Cox on One Question Podcast
This episode is part of a ‘series’ on the podcast One Question with host Michelle Cox - where she is talking to all guests about the same topic, and that topic is REINVENTION!It is a topic she is often asked about; how she reinvented he...
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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26:17
From Shirley Valentine to Solo Adventure: Lessons from a Grown Up's Gap Year
A replay of an Episode where the mic is turned and I am a guest, chatting with Gillian Whitney of Easy Peasy Books podcast."Monique, author of "A Grown Up's Gap Year: Put YOU in the picture", shares the inspiring story behind her midlife...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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38:26
Breaking the Midlife Mold: Secrets of Australia’s Most Relentless PR Student
Another replay of an Episode where the mic is turned and I am a guest. This week chatting with Liz Nable, host of Media Magnet podcast (and Chief all round Media and PR wizz Media Masters Academy). Liz asks me about practical tips for building ...
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Season 1
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Episode 13
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37:43
I Did a Shirley Valentine: Took a Gap Year and Found Myself
A replay of an Episode where the mic is turned and I am a guest of Your 2nd Act host Michelle Parsonage: Imagine reaching midlife and deciding to take a gap year, on your own, without your family, and without all the usual responsibilities....
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Season 1
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Episode 12
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42:23
Living As If: A Mid-Life Reinvigoration Idea To Start Now
This episode is the pivot. It’s not about dismantling your life. It’s about backing yourself for a minute. What if your so-called second act isn’t about waiting for perfect conditions, but about remembering who you are — and showing up for it? ...
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Season 1
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Episode 11
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23:38
Seasons and Japanese Rituals: In conversation with Six Senses Kyoto’s Director of Wellness
This week we head to Kyoto for a conversation about wellbeing that isn’t performative — it’s lived. We talk kerbside shrines and small daily reverence, seasonal eating, onsen bathing, and why Japanese approaches to rest, ritual, and nature feel...
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Season 1
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Episode 10
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25:42
Why I'm A Fan Of Best Practice Retreats: Wellness Travel Done Well
Feeling stretched thin but not sure a “holiday” will fix it? This episode unpacks what a real retreat looks like—and how to choose one that doesn’t fall apart the second you’re home. We talk best-practice design, how to avoid the Wellness Trap,...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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23:21
Saying Yes in Mid-life: A Camino Pilgrimage with Anna Manlulo
Anna Manlulo said yes to herself and walked the Camino de Santiago — one step, one day, along hundreds of kilometres of ancient pilgrim paths. We talk about the moment she moved from “one day” to “I’m going,” the logistics around work and famil...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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45:39
Why More Women Over 50 Are Travelling Solo: And Loving It
Somewhere between society decided women need permission slips to take a breath. If you need it (and of course we don't 'require permission' - our lives, we need look to only ourselves for how to live life fully) “But if a good nudge is required...
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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34:31
Emptier Nest And Everyday Resets That Work: with Prue Francis
If your house is quieter and you aren't quite sure what comes next - this episode is for you. Mid-life reinvigoration, an emptier nest, and the everyday resets that stick. Monique talks with Prue Francis about naming the wobble, choosing small ...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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34:34
Ask Why Not You: How Values Become Your North Star
Ever feel like you’re circling the same question - What now? Why not me? - without actually moving forward? This episode of A Grown Up’s Gap Year takes you straight to the compass you’ve been missing: your values.In less than half an ho...
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Season 1
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Episode 5
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21:36
The Rewrite: Letting Go to Begin Again with Melinda Louise Hutchings
What if the life you’ve built no longer fits? In this candid, hope-filled episode, author of A Grown Up’s Gap Year, wellbeing commentator and host Monique van Tulder, interviews fellow author, editor and Fit HIIT Pilates founder, Melinda Louise...
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Season 1
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Episode 4
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29:53