I Do Me, Boo
I Do Me, Boo is for women done overthinking, doubting themselves, and arguing with their own minds.
I’m Martina — coach, podcaster, and unapologetic truth-teller — and on this show, I’m diving into why growth feels harder than it should.
Why your brain, your nervous system, and old patterns quietly keep you stuck — even when you’re smart, self-aware, and genuinely trying.
Each episode mixes raw personal stories with psychology, neuroscience, and practical insight to uncover:
- Why being wrong feels terrifying
- Why certainty isn’t the same as truth
- Why relationships get messy
- How your inner voice can be your sneakiest blocker
No fluff. No fake motivation. Loads of personal and vulnerable stories. Just honest conversations about emotional patterns, communication, identity, and how to finally trust yourself — without needing to be right all the time.
If you’re ready for clarity, emotional maturity, and growth that actually sticks — without forcing yourself to be anyone else — you’re in the right place.
Less noise. More truth. This is I Do Me, Boo.
I Do Me, Boo
#14 I Was Called An Idiot: Finding Humanity When Everyone’s Losing It
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In this episode, Martina dives into a situation that might hit close to home: being judged, criticized, or even called “stupid” just for having your own opinions—especially in a time when everyone’s feeling intense, emotional, and maybe a bit on edge.
After recently being called “stupid” by a family member for her stance on the U.S. election (if she could vote), Martina’s here to share why that comment didn’t sting and how her sense of self-worth kept her calm and grounded.
This episode explores how we can stay true to ourselves without letting others’ opinions take us down and why we’re all a lot more alike than we might think—even when we disagree.
Key Points:
- The Power of Self-Worth: How grounding yourself in your values and worth can protect you from others’ judgments.
- Seeing Humanity Beyond Opinions: The reality that, underneath all our differences, we share the exact core needs—peace, love, and acceptance—even if our paths to getting there look different.
- Conquering the “Judgment Spiral”: Practical steps to sidestep judgment when others’ beliefs rub you the wrong way and focus instead on empathy and understanding.
- Why It’s OK to Feel Intensely: Acknowledging the normalcy of fear, grief, or frustration over the world’s chaos—without letting those emotions morph into hate.
- Standing Tall in Your Beliefs: Knowing and accepting yourself at a deep level allows you to navigate polarizing conversations with a steady heart.
Tune in for a grounded, spicy chat about finding humanity in times of chaos and keeping your peace—even when everyone else seems to be losing it.
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