Midlife with Courage™-Flourishing After Forty with Kim Benoy

Exploring Motherhood Through Open Adoption: A Journey of Courage with Ayo Haynes

Kimberly Benoy-Registered Nurse, Aromatherapist, Wife and Mom Episode 203

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In this episode of 'Midlife with Courage,' Kim welcomes Ayo Haynes, a coach, realtor, keynote speaker, and open adoption success coach. Ayo shares her inspiring journey of becoming a mother through adoption as a single woman in her 40s. She discusses the importance of open adoption, mindset changes, and the detailed adoption process. Ayo also offers insights into balancing motherhood with her career and the significance of community support.

Listen to hear Ayo's encouraging message for women who still dream of motherhood despite the societal norms.

00:00 Welcome to Midlife with Courage
00:23 Meet Ayo Haynes: A Journey of Courage
02:09 Embracing Motherhood Through Adoption
06:00 Navigating the Adoption Process
16:27 The Importance of Open Adoption
26:02 Supporting Women in Their Adoption Journey
34:37 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

If you would like to follow Ayo on Instagram you can click HERE. You will learn more about her work with open adoption and her other amazing endeavors. 

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Kim Benoy is a retired RN, Certified Aromatherapist, wife and mom who is passionate about inspiring and encouraging women over 40. She wants you to see your own beauty, value and worth through sharing stories of other women just like you.

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