Are We Okay? with licensed therapists, Maddy & Jennifer

are we... losing the spark?

Jennifer Teplin and Maddy Ellberger Season 3 Episode 36

What happens when the honeymoon phase fades and real life takes over?

Jen and Maddy get candid about losing the spark in a relationship, spotting the signs early, and reigniting connection when things start to feel… routine. From mental load and communication to intimacy and independence, they’re breaking down what it actually takes to keep love alive.

Key Topics: 

  • How to tell when your relationship is losing its spark
  • Practical ways to bring back connection and excitement
  • Why comfort isn’t always a bad thing — and what it can teach you
  • The myth of “putting your relationship first” (and what to do instead)
  • Navigating the mental load, communication, and self-prioritization
  • What to do when your partner stops trying — or you stop caring

If you’ve ever wondered how to keep love alive when life gets busy, this episode is your reminder that the spark isn’t gone — it just needs a little attention.

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Connect with us:

Email us your questions at: hello@areweokay.com
Follow Jennifer on Instagram: @manhattan.wellness
Follow Maddy on Instagram: @downtownbehavioralwellness

Downtown Behavioral Wellness: Founded by Maddy Ellberger, Downtown Behavioral Wellness is a private therapy practice in NYC specializing in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The practice focuses on providing evidence-based treatments for young adults and middle-aged clients dealing with life transitions, anxiety, and the unique challenges of their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Whether you're grappling with relationship issues, career stress, or emotional regulation, Downtown Behavioral Wellness is there to support you every step of the way.

Manhattan Wellness: Led by Jennifer Teplin, Manhattan Wellness is a boutique therapy practice dedicated to helping young professionals in New York City. Specializing in issues such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and major life transitions like dating, engagements, and new motherhood, the team at Manhattan Wellness provides compassionate, individualized care to help clients navigate the ups and downs of their 20s and 30s.

Co-Host: Maddy Ellberger
Co-Host: Jennifer Teplin
Executive Producer: Wicked Child Studio, Hailey Rovner Malach