Your New Chapter: For women starting over, rebuilding or reinventing their lives
Sharlene Lee is a women's life coach who specializes in helping women who are starting over, rebuilding their lives or reinventing themselves to gain the clarity and direction they need to move forward. This show will deliver practical guidance and real conversations on the internal and external work of starting over for women who are navigating major life change — whether you chose it or it chose you. If you are looking for support, clarity, and a roadmap for your new chapter, you are in the right place.
This show is for you if you find yourself asking questions like:
- How do I start over when I don't know who I am anymore?
- How do I find clarity when I feel lost?
- How do I figure out what I want in this next season of my life?
- How do I rebuild my confidence and sense of self?
- How do I start over and rebuild my life after a major life change?
- Where do I even begin when everything feels uncertain?
- How do I reinvent myself?
Your New Chapter: For women starting over, rebuilding or reinventing their lives
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: Understanding and Managing Your Triggers
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Referenced Episodes:
- Episode 8: The Physical Toll of Narcissistic Abuse
- Episode 33: Renewing Your Mind After Narcissistic Abuse
- Episode 36: Trusting Your Gut After Narcissistic Abuse
Have you ever felt your heart start racing when a certain name pops up on your phone? Or experienced that familiar knot in your stomach when someone dismisses your feelings the same way your narcissist used to? If you've had moments like these, you're dealing with emotional triggers narcissistic abuse creates - and this episode will show you how to navigate them with grace, wisdom, and hope.
In this powerful episode of Life After Narcissism, we dive deep into the "Recover" phase of your narcissistic abuse recovery journey. You'll discover that managing triggers isn't just about overcoming difficult reactions - it's about understanding God's incredible design for your protection and healing from triggers after narcissistic abuse.
What You'll Learn:
- What narcissistic abuse triggers really are and why they happen to survivors
- How to reframe emotional triggers narcissistic abuse creates as God's internal warning system and boundary teachers
- Common trigger experiences that survivors face (contact from the narcissist, gaslighting, control situations, and more)
- Biblical strategies for healing from narcissistic abuse that honor your emotions while inviting God's transformation
- The power of prayer and being filled with the Holy Spirit when dealing with narcissistic abuse triggers
- Practical managing triggers techniques including grounding exercises and self-compassion strategies
- How to set boundaries using your trigger responses as protective guides
A Personal Story That Will Transform Your Perspective:
Hear a real-life example of how triggers after narcissistic abuse can serve as protective wisdom, helping you identify when someone is gaslighting you and teaching you exactly what boundaries you need to stay safe and healthy in your narcissistic abuse recovery.
This episode addresses a crucial truth for Christian women's healing from narcissistic abuse: You don't have to deny or stuff down difficult emotions to be walking in faith. Instead, learn how to acknowledge emotional triggers narcissistic abuse creates honestly and then invite Jesus to transform them, just like David did in the Psalms.
Key Scripture References:
- 2 Timothy 1:7 - God has not given us a spirit of fear
- Philippians 4:6-7 - Tell God what you need
- 1 John 4:18 - Perfect love casts out fear
- Isaiah 61:3 - Beauty from ashes
This episode is part of our ongoing series following the 3 R's framework: Recognize, Recover, Redefine. Perfect
DISCLAIMER
Your New Chapter podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice. Sharlene Lee is a life coach, not a licensed therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis or need professional support, please seek help from a qualified mental health professional. By listening you agree that Sharlene Lee and Your New Chapter are not liable for any actions taken based on content shared on this podcast.
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