Starting Over - Your New Chapter
Sharlene Lee is a women's life coach who specializes in helping women who are starting over, rebuilding their lives or reinventing themselves to gain the clarity and direction they need to move forward. This show will deliver practical guidance and real conversations on the internal and external work of starting over for women who are navigating major life change — whether you chose it or it chose you. If you are looking for support, clarity, and a roadmap for your new chapter, you are in the right place.
This show is for you if you find yourself asking questions like:
- How do I start over when I don't know who I am anymore?
- How do I find clarity when I feel lost?
- How do I figure out what I want in this next season of my life?
- How do I rebuild my confidence and sense of self?
- How do I start over and rebuild my life after a major life change?
- Where do I even begin when everything feels uncertain?
- How do I reinvent myself?
Starting Over - Your New Chapter
Recognizing the Red Flags: A Survivor's Story with Ariel Collin (Part 1)
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SUMMARY
In the first part of this moving interview, Shar talks with Ariel Collin about her personal experience of falling into and navigating a relationship with a narcissist. Ariel opens up about how the relationship started as a fun whirlwind during the isolation of COVID, only to slowly transform into a web of control, guilt, and isolation. They discuss the difficulty of identifying red flags when you're in the middle of it, the impact of moving away from support systems, and the "beads in a jar" analogy for realizing when a situation has become toxic.
WHAT TO LISTEN FOR
- The "Whirlwind" Trap: Why intense early passion can sometimes be a warning sign rather than a fairy tale.
- What to look out for in terms of isolation tactics used by the narcissist and the impact of isolation.
- Microaggressions and Control: Recognizing the subtle ways a partner might control your clothing, schedule, and even your sleep.
- What is the The "Beads in a Jar" Analogy?
- Why hearing other people's stories is crucial for trusting your own intuition again
GUEST BIO
Ariel Collin is a former educator and sales professional who has successfully transitioned into business ownership. After navigating a long-term toxic relationship, Ariel is now passionate about sharing her story to help others recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse and find the strength to reclaim their lives.
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CONNECT WITH SHAR (Host)
- Want to be a guest on Life After Narcissism? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/sharlenelee
- Email me: hello@sharlenelee.com
- Website: Sharlenelee.com
DISCLAIMER
Your New Chapter podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health or medical advice. Sharlene Lee is a life coach, not a licensed therapist or counselor. If you are in crisis or need professional support, please seek help from a qualified mental health professional. By listening you agree that Sharlene Lee and Your New Chapter are not liable for any actions taken based on content shared on this podcast.
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